iouaname Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 Throughout this breakup, I've been feeling really bad about myself because I felt like I wasn't 'wanted' by me ex. But then I got to thinking, and I realized that there were a lot of things about my ex that I did not like, but that I put up with or learned to accept because I loved him. The fact that it was not reciprocated makes me realize that I never should have settled. It's okay for me to have expectations for a partner. And through this breakup, I've learned a lot about what I want from a person. - I want someone who feels lucky to have me. I will never again allow myself to be in a relationship where I am not valued. - I want someone who is secure enough with himself to not feel he needs attention outside the relationship - He must look exactly like Zac Efron, otherwise he can get to steppin What are your non-negotiables?
BrokenHeartedSavior Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 Lol yes, my next must look like Sophia Vergara. Dealbreaker. Seriously though, i think you summed it up perfectly. Great points. To be valued, and not need for her to look elsewhere. But good, bad or indifferent, This experience has changed me, i'll no longer tolerate (accept) the negative things she was simply based on my attraction to her. I was your classic "nice guy pushover". (not at the beginning) and thats how i lost her. So I think I'll be looking for a different ME in my next relationship. Not lose sight of myself above all. NO man or woman is worth that ever again.
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