thekarmacist Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 he has reached out several times over the last eight months only to meet with silence. he wished me a happy birthday, stopped by my home when i wasn't there, and has emailed. most recent request was that we 'meet and talk'. after 8 months, what for? i finally answered, and said we could email- but he replied that email wasn't satisfactory. i ignored again- i have no interest in meeting in person. yesterday, he writes and tells me to contact him 'if/when i'm ready to talk'. what's the point? thanks
iouaname Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 Well I'm no mind reader - but you broke things off with him (if I'm not mistaken), so it's possible that he wants to talk about getting back together. If you aren't going to just ignore him, you might as well ask him what he wants!
Author thekarmacist Posted April 2, 2013 Author Posted April 2, 2013 yes, i did break it off very abruptly with him. we had been together for 4 years and tings weren't going well. while i'm the one that technically ended the relationship, i felt i had no choice. iafter becoming fed up, i withdrew and ceased communication altogether. i have not initiated ANY communication with him and ignored all but one. i figured if he just wanted to discuss the whys of the end of the relationship and get 'closure', he could've just emailed. after 8 months, you'd think he'd have found his own closure. i'm still far too angry to have any conversation with him, and more often than not, i feel that i'm out of love. mostly i just feel the dull ache that comes wiith disappointment and the death of your dream of the future with someone you thought you could depend on.
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