lost_alone Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 My ex boyfriend and I had been together for 4 years we broke up 2 weeks ago very suddenly. I am in school ft and work so I had little time to see him everyday. I would see him twice a week and would stay over for us to be close. Back in december he wanted me to move in. I said I couldnt right now but hopefully in april when im done school we could. He accepted this. But about a month after we started to have issues. My ex recently got a new job with a labouring company and bought a new car. But his job couldnt give him steady work in the winter so he was always scrounging for money and would get easily upset about things. One day he lost it on me takeing all his anger out in one go. He finally calmed down and we talked about our relationship and how we could fix it. The things were us going out more and seeing one another more. So I made sacrafices in school to see him as much as possible. Due to his lack of money I paid for all our dates. But I was starting to become a little upset because I felt like I was doing all the work to keep us going and he did nothing just kept complaining. I asked him multiple times if something was wrong if he still loved me and wanted to be with me. He said he loved me alot and he was just going through his own thing. So I accepted it and moved on in the relationship. Then on st pattys day we were talking as usual. I was sick so went to take a nap. When I woke up I texted him he said he was out at the bar with his friends even thiugh he was broke. Then out of the blue he said we had to talk. Then went on to say that even with me trying so hard nothing felt different he didnt think he loved me the way he use to.and that he couldnt live with someone like me that he couldnt stand even talking to me on the phone anymore. This hurt me and I was tired of him doing this to me everytime he had personal issues so because of this I lost it on him told him I was done with his bs and that I was better off single than with him. We have been nc since that day and he deleted me and blocked me off fb. We didnt talk about it nothing just went seperate ways. Im seeing and going on dates with other people but hes still in the back of my mind. So my questions are what happened why did he do all that all of a sudden was it because of his own issues and he was just insecure? Also does anyone think he may contact in the next month or two thinking he made a mistake or should I wait see how I feel and if I still miss him contact him myself? I really need advice everything was left so up in the air. Also I havent cried at all since we broke up and havent really missed him until now. Please help
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