went out with a new girl and didn't really like her

[Mack05]

I vote for just ignoring her. He will forgive in his own time in his mind. Cav

 

Cav you could be right. The above is just a personal choice. I would find it liberating

[garnettandblack84]

right there with ya man. Been on a couple dates, and they are so painfully akward because I need to deal with this on my own, before I can be a better or great version of my self. The kissing thing is funny, because the last girl I kissed i was like, really wtf kind of kiss is that. Didn't realize that people kissed so differently, or maybe my ex was just a good kisser who knows. The heart must heal before it loves again, I am taking time for my self. Good luck man, why not try a second date you never know, unless you're just really not interested in her at all.

[Feelin Frisky]

One date is enough. That's not to mean the problem is always with the other person. But I think having a second and third date with someone who doesn't do anything to tickle your fancy is like leading them on and that becomes more of a drama to end.

Edited April 3, 2013 by Feelin Frisky

[destroyed4sho]

If she was still being a weirdo on the 2nd date, then I would just let her go. If it were me, I would probably tell her that she is not 'open' and don't feel a connection. Some people are shy but if she didn't say ANYTHING then that is a bit much. Did she really not say ANYTHING? Or was it that she wasn't as loud as your ex?

Did you ask her questions, or were you rambling about yourself?

IF you did ask her questions, how did she respond? Was she using sign language or acting like a mime? Hard to believe... I don't get it?

[calgary]

it wasn't really a date we've never really called them dates. i guess it's just at that awkward stage where we're really shy around each other! she sort of answers a question but leaves it at that without asking things back, she just seems like a quiet person in general, she's really nice she just seems really shy and at the moment i'm shy too so it's making it really awkward. her body language seems shy, like if we accidentally brush hands walking passed each other in the kitchen we'd move them fast or like when we sat next to each other it felt a little tense. just really awkward and un smooth. i think she'll warm up after we hang out with our friends a few more times, i just get the impression that it's because we've only met each other 5 times. I've got all the time in the world i'll play it slowly and see how it goes and then maybe ask her if she wants to go get food sometime.