Imajerk17 Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 (edited) Right now I am trying an experiment in my dating life: Whatever I think I should do, I'm going to do the opposite. Now I am doing this within reason. I know that women want a MAN so that won't change. But what will change is that I am going to give up "game" completely. I'm doing this with a girl I am talking to online. --We are meeting tomorrow. I called her (not just texted) Saturday, Sunday, AND tonight. Forget about being mysterious or going by time-tables. All 3 conversations went well too! --I warned her that I am going to use the cold weather to my advantage and make all sorts of moves on her on the guise of keeping her warm. --I've told her that I can be socially awkward at times and that I need someone to get me in touch with my emotions and that is what I like about her. Basically I decided that she will either love me or hate me but there won't be any neutral feelings. Let's see how this all turns out... Edited April 2, 2013 by Imajerk17 4
Eternal Sunshine Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 Like the Seinfield episode Since I am disaster with men, I am going to do the opposite of everything I ever did. Like I am going to shoot a breezy message asking this cute guy for a drink. 3
ScienceGal Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 I am quite accepting of most any message I receive from someone I'm with, and I always respond in a positive way so they aren't left feeling as though they're out on a limb. But, I'm quick to judge myself and wonder if I should've sent something. I wonder, did they misinterpret? Was it a little over the top? Am I being too "easy" when maybe I should be playing hard to get? Why haven't they responded yet!!?? I still struggle with this, but decided WTF, I'm me. I'm going to respond and make them feel good about the flirty, silly things they send, and I'll send what I want too. I'm not going to be discouraged from being myself. But, I used to be discouraged. No more, I'm doing the opposite! 1
dasein Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 I think the true form of the opposite game would entail farm animals and lots of gas huffing.
Michelle83 Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 Right now I am trying an experiment in my dating life: Whatever I think I should do, I'm going to do the opposite. Now I am doing this within reason. I know that women want a MAN so that won't change. But what will change is that I am going to give up "game" completely. I'm doing this with a girl I am talking to online. I really hope this goes well for you and only wish more guys would adopt a similar approach. I'm getting so tired of the games in dating.
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