bikerider Posted September 13, 2004 Posted September 13, 2004 I'm new here. I stated reading some of the posts after my girl dumped me. Here is the story. I had been dating this girl for over a year and things could not have been more perfect. Then we went to Myrtle Beach for Bike Week and it went down hill from there. We were at dinner and I thought the cost of the meal wasn't worth what we paid and told her we could take home the leftovers in a box. She told me later that she had a problem with that. She had never dated anyone where costs were an issue. We did'nt break up till 4 weeks later. That was this past May. We got back together 4 days later and things were great for about 2 1/2 weeks. Now about 6 weeks ago she decided to end it again stating that she was working too much to make our relationship grow. Like a crazy man I asked her to marry me a week later. She then stated other reasons why she wanted out of the relationship like she doesn't like sitting at home on Saturday nights although I had told her I wanted to go out. She said she felt bad asking me to spend any money on her because I had just lost my part time job 3 weeks prior. Anyyyyway, I found out that she was out dancing with a new guy just 4 days after she dumped me. Let me cut to the chase. I called her and left a nasty message accusing her of sleeping with this guy before she broke up and to call me. I called her back 4 hours later and left another message only angrier. She called me back and left this message, "I don't know why you're doing this. I didn't sleep with anyone while we were dating and still...I haven't slept with anyone. I don't know why you are making this so hard." I called her back the next day and left a message appologizing and asked her to call so I could explain. I called her back two hours later and asked her to forgive me and that I wouldn't bother her any more. She called back 30 minutes later and said she would like to come over so we could talk. She came over the next day after work. Long story short. We both cried, she said she loved me, we kised and she said if I'm mean to her it will never happen and also said that if it's ment to be it will happen. She stayed for 2 hours. The next day I emailed her and we exhanged 3 emails. She talked in the past tense about us. She said it will get easier for me to move on over time, etc. She thanked me for all of our good memories and said it would be a terrible loss if we had ill feelings towards each other and signed it, Love Always. This guy she was with she has known for 3 years. I didn't know that at the time. She said he asked her out and she told him that going out was okay but there wouldn't be any sex. I've decided it best not to email her or call her any more. I know she loves me but I don't want to look needy. I wish I could find me someone else but that takes time.
mighty bop Posted September 13, 2004 Posted September 13, 2004 I know how you feel buddy. It's hard and does take time, but it's not as hard as you think, trust me. There are SO many other girls out there 10 times better than the one you were with that will give you no problems. Just keep looking. You will soon forget this one... Chris
Author bikerider Posted September 13, 2004 Author Posted September 13, 2004 Originally posted by mighty bop I know how you feel buddy. It's hard and does take time, but it's not as hard as you think, trust me. There are SO many other girls out there 10 times better than the one you were with that will give you no problems. Just keep looking. You will soon forget this one... Chris Yeah I know. Thanks for the reply. I miss her sooo much and think of her all of the time. I guess I just have to see what will be.
mighty bop Posted September 13, 2004 Posted September 13, 2004 You'll make it. Been there. Gets easier over time. Chris
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