Dumped my gf and starting to regret it

[guydownsouth]

Two days ago I dumped my girlfriend of around 2-3 months. I felt fine at first but now I'm starting to miss her. I also feel really bad for hurting her by dumping her.

 

The reason I dumped her..and this might sound shallow..is that I saw her without makeup a bunch of times and my attraction to her plummeted, and I felt like I lost all interest even though I wanted to like her and wanted things to work. I also have been feeling really stressed about school lately and it's possible I took it out on her by dumping her.

 

Is it normal for a dumper to feel regretful so soon after a breakup or should I consider asking her to get back together?

[brokenhearted91]

Wow. The quote "if you can't handle me at my worst, you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best". What a shallow reason to dump someone. There's more to life than how someone looks, beauty is in the inside. She's better off without someone so shallow in my opinion.

[BrokenHearted101]

The reason I dumped her..and this might sound shallow..is that I saw her without makeup a bunch of times and my attraction to her plummeted, and I felt like I lost all interest even though I wanted to like her and wanted things to work. I also have been feeling really stressed about school lately and it's possible I took it out on her by dumping her.

 

No, you did the right thing.

....Go let her find a man who loves her as much, and finds her beautiful, with makeup on, AND without.

You made the right choice for both of you.

 

Above poster: You stole my quote, my words out of my mouth...And the username I originally wanted! No fair! hahaahaha

[lovelifexx]

I understand you that if you don't feel attracted to someone, you just don't feel it. However, you have a very unrealistic standard. You will have a difficult time finding someone who looks amazing all the time. Someday we will all be wrinkly and sagging, you included.