Looks like its about time to tell the rest of my story (why women suck)

[Sugarkane]

I Also want to say not every woman is a Ahole like this. I'm 26 and never cheated on anyone or trapped someone into being pregnant- doesn't force a guy to stay these days. Yet I've been cheated on and dumped cruelly. Feel free to read my past posts. I've taken dating breaks before because thievery reason- everyone cheats and dumps and acts like a coward. On the other hand it annoys The hell out of me when guys want to have zero protection. Then blame us and leave us with the consequences, while guys start pressuring someone else into unprotected sex.

[GudDude2013]

Don't let these people rag on you for being jaded. You have been traumatized and have every right to feel bitter and guarded. I understand the point of not painting with such a broad stroke, but what they seem to not understand is that the 90% of the good women who have to catch hell for the 10% of evil women is bull****. You take any woman out of that hundred. The sweetest, kindest, most caring, and gentle woman and she has the inert potential to become a raging, psychotic, conniving, deceiving, and evil bitch given the right circumstance.

 

This goes for men too. The sweet, sincere, nice guy who volunteers at Sunday school can rape you, beat you, and set you on fire given a few tours in the vietnam war and certain conditions.

 

There are no absolutes, and when dealing with human beings, and human nature you should always be on guard to a certain degree. It's like riding a motorcycle with no helmet. You could pop wheelie for 20 years, and then one false move and just like that your head gets cracked open like an egg.

 

The guy who lives the perfect life with the perfect loving family, and all the trimmings may work in a top secret government laboratory working on a weapon of mass destruction because it's his job.

 

So don't go trying to place blame on someone who may not have known who he was dealing with. You can pay attention to certain behaviors or perceived character flaws when your allegedly getting to know someone to try and help form opinions on whose good for you and who may not be, but there is no perfect formula to getting to truly know someone. Love is blind and we all can wear shades, please.

[dreamingoftigers]

Its bittersweet.....honestly...

 

I was looking forward to spoiling my little girl... now that's gone.

 

Awww. You'll do it someday, the right way.

 

If you were looking forward to a little person like that, this isn't the end of the line.

 

They are just as enchanting as you can imagine, plus some.

 

You'll get that shot again. And really, the odds are totally against it being worse.

[KatZee]

People are a.ssholes. Men and women alike. You can't sit here and say the 10% of women ruin it for the rest of us... because guess what? The 10% of males that my ex was a part of? I can say that he now ruined it for the rest of YOU guys. And you, as a sweet, caring, and supportive boyfriend can kiss the chance of having a great woman goodbye... all because my ex ruined it for you.

 

You see how the tables are turned there? It's not all about you and how a woman screwed you over. Can you really sit here and put all the blame on her anyway? There were red flags waving in your face the whole time and you continued on! You felt something wasn't right, there were many bad fights, she was manipulative... and you STAYED. This in itself is no one's fault but your own. It's not her fault she played you and used you and lied to you. You ALLOWED IT.

 

I get you're angry, but truly, the only person you should be angry at, is yourself. Forgive yourself for staying with someone when all the signs said to leave. You'll eventually feel less jaded as time goes on and you heal.