Author Drseussgrrl Posted April 1, 2013 Author Posted April 1, 2013 No kidding. One of them is to make a fool out of you while they look for better...... ......just kidding but I can't help but to think that is actually true in most cases. Men do it too. Three months before our wedding, my ex dumped me for someone 7 years our junior. Now they have a baby and a wedding in the works of their own. I've never really recovered. 3
iKING Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 Men do it too. Three months before our wedding, my ex dumped me for someone 7 years our junior. Now they have a baby and a wedding in the works of their own. I've never really recovered. I was just being sarcastic, but I'm sorry to hear it Dr. 1
iris219 Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 Hey, can I play too? It sucks being tall and thin. I'm constantly told I look like a model. Too bad the fashion industry's beauty standards are dictated by women and gay men. When my BF tells me I'm beautiful, I know it's because he's secretly gay. 2
iKING Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 Hey, can I play too? It sucks being tall and thin. I'm constantly told I look like a model. Too bad the fashion industry's beauty standards are dictated by women and gay men. When my BF tells me I'm beautiful, I know it's because he's secretly gay. No man on planet earth would find a tall, thin, model looking girl to be beautiful. It's a fact. 3
sweetkiwi Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 All attractive women have an agenda. It's a fact. You are fighting a losing battle.
ltjg45 Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 Men do it too. Three months before our wedding, my ex dumped me for someone 7 years our junior. Now they have a baby and a wedding in the works of their own. I've never really recovered. Well, he's an idiot. I'm sure that will come back to bite him eventually. And I'm sure you will celebrate when that happens. This is why I don't take dating so highly anymore. The only way I can tell if a female is in it in the long run is when she shows interest and actually approach me despite my physical flaws. Like other males, while I do want to get married, I'm terrified by divorce and it is so easy to trigger it as well because I know when the divorce case appears, I most likely lost the battle. Anyway, I'm sure you are better off without that trash can. 1
iris219 Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 No man on planet earth would find a tall, thin, model looking girl to be beautiful. It's a fact. I know. Sucks being me. 2
sweetkiwi Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 Well, he's an idiot. I'm sure that will come back to bite him eventually. And I'm sure you will celebrate when that happens. This is why I don't take dating so highly anymore. The only way I can tell if a female is in it in the long run is when she shows interest and actually approach me despite my physical flaws. Like other males, while I do want to get married, I'm terrified by divorce and it is so easy to trigger it as well because I know when the divorce case appears, I most likely lost the battle. Anyway, I'm sure you are better off without that trash can. What are "physical flaws"....? I love men. Period. 1
iKING Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 What are "physical flaws"....? I love men. Period. Women are obviously better.
ltjg45 Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 What are "physical flaws"....? I love men. Period. No strength (have issues lifting 50 pounds so if I ever get into a fight, it is smarter for me to run or stay there and take the blows since fighting back will only add to the embarrassment), have a belly, pimples on my face, facial hair, leg pain issues that I don't know if it counts as a disability or not. That is just my physical flaws. What I can't do is even worse.
candie13 Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 All attractive women have an agenda. It's a fact. Takes a lot of self confidence to date an attractive woman. Takes a real man to trust one. An attractive woman is a lot more work, because other than her issues you have to deal with your own insecurities, related to her and your relationship... as for the "agenda", sorry, everyone has an agenda, men or women. If it's sex, diamond ring, house at the beach or bunch of babies... everyone, not just attractive women. it's like saying that un-atractive women don't wish for marriage and babies... we all want to be accepted and loved. all of us. 1
iKING Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 Takes a lot of self confidence to date an attractive woman. Takes a real man to trust one. An attractive woman is a lot more work, because other than her issues you have to deal with your own insecurities, related to her and your relationship... as for the "agenda", sorry, everyone has an agenda, men or women. If it's sex, diamond ring, house at the beach or bunch of babies... everyone, not just attractive women. it's like saying that un-atractive women don't wish for marriage and babies... we all want to be accepted and loved. all of us. Candie, I was joking. It's April Fools day, I get one day where I can be a sarcastic crap starter. 1
sweetkiwi Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 No strength (have issues lifting 50 pounds so if I ever get into a fight, it is smarter for me to run or stay there and take the blows since fighting back will only add to the embarrassment), have a belly, pimples on my face, facial hair, leg pain issues that I don't know if it counts as a disability or not. That is just my physical flaws. What I can't do is even worse. Then focus on what you CAN DO. Who you are. Do you realize how many people told me I would never find a good man, a man worth having because I am a sexual deviant???! Yet here I am. In love with a great man. Who loves me the same. Don't give up!!!!! Never surrender!!!!!!!!
ltjg45 Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 Candie, I was joking. It's April Fools day, I get one day where I can be a sarcastic crap starter. Oh, how much I wish that day never existed.
iKING Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 Oh, how much I wish that day never existed. It doesn't exist. 2
fortyninethousand322 Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 Takes a lot of self confidence to date an attractive woman. Takes a real man to trust one. An attractive woman is a lot more work, because other than her issues you have to deal with your own insecurities, related to her and your relationship... as for the "agenda", sorry, everyone has an agenda, men or women. If it's sex, diamond ring, house at the beach or bunch of babies... everyone, not just attractive women. it's like saying that un-atractive women don't wish for marriage and babies... we all want to be accepted and loved. all of us. Everyone might have an agenda, but some people have grander agendas than others. There are some people, IMO who are incapable of genuine unconditional love. Some are them are attractive women, and some of them are men.
dasein Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 I feel OP's pain. My boobs have gotten me discriminated against in many ways, mainly due to them not existing. 4
candie13 Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 Everyone might have an agenda, but some people have grander agendas than others. There are some people, IMO who are incapable of genuine unconditional love. Some are them are attractive women, and some of them are men. because bitter unattractive women who struggle to get dates, who are never told are beautiful or attractive, who are never even noticed, but always ridiculed, those women are full of compassion and dying to share unconditional love man, that post above says a million thing about your own fears, convictions, limitations, knowledge of women, self confidence, experience with women... dare I continue... 1
iKING Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 because bitter unattractive women who struggle to get dates, who are never told are beautiful or attractive, who are never even noticed, but always ridiculed, those women are full of compassion and dying to share unconditional love man, that post above says a million thing about your own fears, convictions, limitations, knowledge of women, self confidence, experience with women... dare I continue... Humans are humans, generalizations are incredulous. I've known many gorgeous women who were humble, modest, and perfectly capable of being compassionate human beings. Same to say for handsome men. Generalizations are typically made by those who have bitter opinions of the topic of their debate. It's okay to have an opinion, but making broad assumptions of a gender, type of gender, or anything else with a million different variables is a joke. 2
fortyninethousand322 Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 because bitter unattractive women who struggle to get dates, who are never told are beautiful or attractive, who are never even noticed, but always ridiculed, those women are full of compassion and dying to share unconditional love man, that post above says a million thing about your own fears, convictions, limitations, knowledge of women, self confidence, experience with women... dare I continue... I really don't understand a) what's factually incorrect about my post and b) why it so upsets people. You're telling me that if an attractive woman was interested in me, that I shouldn't be suspicious or avoid her?
fortyninethousand322 Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 Humans are humans, generalizations are incredulous. I've known many gorgeous women who were humble, modest, and perfectly capable of being compassionate human beings. Same to say for handsome men. Generalizations are typically made by those who have bitter opinions of the topic of their debate. It's okay to have an opinion, but making broad assumptions of a gender, type of gender, or anything else with a million different variables is a joke. Obviously there are exceptions to every rule. We're talking about generalities here.
iKING Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 You're telling me that if an attractive woman was interested in me, that I shouldn't be suspicious or avoid her? If you're confident and have a view of self-worth, no. 1
candie13 Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 It'a got nothing to do with you, but everything to do with making generalizations. Read iKing's post above, very articulate. I don't know you, I have no idea who you are and why you'd be suspicious if an attractive woman approached you. You do realize that attraction goes beyond flesh and looks, do you? 1
ltjg45 Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 It doesn't exist. I wish that was the case. Unfortunately, too many times so far in my life I got caught in that crap. As I said many times already, I hate surprises.
iKING Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 I wish that was the case. Unfortunately, too many times so far in my life I got caught in that crap. As I said many times already, I hate surprises. Surprise..
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