MovingOn2013 Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 I find this the biggest part to get over Coming up to 11 weeks and I think I'm doing well so far. Kept to NC and his breadcrumbs have finally stopped Just abandonment? It hurts that, go from everything to nothing What's the best ways to get through that part?
Tressugar Posted April 2, 2013 Posted April 2, 2013 Stay busy, find a hobby and visit with your friends. Don't forget to be gentle with yourself. 1
Sugarcube Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 I feel for you. Being abandoned is awful. Allow yourself time to grieve so you can release the emotions, you'll go through so many. Make time to do things that you enjoy. Spend time with friends, go for walks, listen to upbeat music. Trust that good things fall apart so better things can come together. I've been NC for one year after a 5 1/2 year relationship with the one I thought was the love of my life. I was everything to him. When I called him, he would answer the phone saying "hello my life". I was beyond in love. Then one day, he was gone. no closure, no "its over", nothing. Found out afterward that he had been cheating on me. I know what you're going through. It's hard, it's painful but you will come through it and you will smile again. Stay strong.
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