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When you are the one ending the relationship.....


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So I see a lot of no contact threads on here, all seem to be posted by the one who was broken up with.

 

For those who have followed my relationship here over the past 12 months, you know my struggles. Tuesday night I ended things, though not offically, I simply said I am done and walked out.

 

The anger carried me thru the first 3-4 days, then I started to miss her. Last night she sent me a long email, written very well and from the heart, letting me know how she felt in the relationship. It hurt and made me sad. At the end of the email she said she was letting go, which hurt too.

 

I have typed out a reply many times, then deleted it. I feel like I still need to help her, help her see the light if you will, yet I know nothing I can say or do will change who she is.

 

Not sure what my message is here, just needed to type this out, that it's difficult being the one who ended the relationship, when it was a great relationship, yet there were differences that simply could not be worked out. Her letting go statement hurt, I feel sad and I miss her.

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