lastresort Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 Well making through the weekend was tough. My XGF and i had to work together all day Saturday, literally 14 hours. She works for me, my only employee. Come Sunday, Easter, she invited me to her families house for brunch, unfortunately i had to work an event that went all day, I couldnt even go to church. She called me after church and I invited her down to the event, they had an amazing Easter Brunch and she joined me on my hour break and ate with me. After my break she hung out until it was done and helped me breakdown my gear. She kept telling me how she needed a massage. I told her to come by the house and i will massage her. She actually showed up!!! I massaged for about an hour and a half. One thing lead to another and we ended up having sex, no complaints here. She then invited me to her house for Easter dinner with her family, grand parents and all. After dinner we played some family games and everyone went to bed. We always watch the Walking Dead together so I stayed and watched with her then rubbed and tickled her until she fell asleep, I tried to leave a couple of times and she kept saying no. I finally got her to sleep and I went home. What do i do from here, should i still not expect more or should i pursue her more. I just dont want to push too hard. thank you for any advice.
GudDude2013 Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 (edited) Your doing great bro! For a break up and an ex relationship it sounds like your weekend couldn't had went any better. I know your going to make a lot of guys on here jealous of this thread. In my opinion you are officially back in there, just don't blow it. Go with the flow let her do the driving. I would not call her. I'd wait for her to call. This will get you semi control. I would be pleasant, but would not mention the holiday you'll shared. I'd almost act like it didn't happen. Fight your impulse to give in to your emotions.......DO NOT TELL HER YOU LOVE HER! You need to follow her direction, do not assume that the intimacy she shared means she wants the relationship back. It could be familiarity, missing you, etc. Let her stear, and be careful to keep your seatbelt on. play it tight. Do not give in to what you want, but instead have the patience and attention to allow her to express what it is that she ultimately wants. If she wants to try again, then so be it, but it must be her decision to make......kudos dude Edited April 1, 2013 by GudDude2013 1
Pisces13 Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 How long have you guys been broken up for? I would suggest playing it cool. I don't necessarily think you're "back in" like GudDude2013 said, but I agree with him saying that you should let her come to you, especially if she is the one who broke up with you (I am assuming she was?). Just go with the flow and see what happens, don't have any expectations because she might bring you back to reality pretty quickly.
Author lastresort Posted April 1, 2013 Author Posted April 1, 2013 pisces, BU just over 2 weeks ago. Yah I am just taking it slow. Not going to push any thing, all though it will be hard. I just hope it doesn't end up a FWB situation. She means way more to me than that and i think i am too involved in her sons life to have that as an option. I just tell myself every morning be strong.
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