candie13 Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 don't do anything like asking for his number or contacting him. I am sure the sex was fun, but since this was your first ONS - much to your surprise, since you have had any, previously, I'd say you're not fine . It's ok to feel bad. Use this as a learning experience and never put out this early. Learn to know the other person and then re-evaluate if you really like him enough to pull. Why don't you try to bring a date to the wedding? Bet it'll make you feel better . Cheer up, girl, as kaylan puts it, there are guys out there who are not looking just for sex. But you gotta keep your eyes very open and spot those who do. To eliminate them. 1
Author Buttercup84 Posted April 4, 2013 Author Posted April 4, 2013 don't do anything like asking for his number or contacting him. I am sure the sex was fun, but since this was your first ONS - much to your surprise, since you have had any, previously, I'd say you're not fine . It's ok to feel bad. Use this as a learning experience and never put out this early. Learn to know the other person and then re-evaluate if you really like him enough to pull. Why don't you try to bring a date to the wedding? Bet it'll make you feel better . Cheer up, girl, as kaylan puts it, there are guys out there who are not looking just for sex. But you gotta keep your eyes very open and spot those who do. To eliminate them. Thank you I am Ok-ish, just a bit disapointed as I do not even kiss guys that quick. I am normally hard to get but I think we just had amazing chemistry. But now I see how he was buttering me up, and was just drunk. I will be Ok eventually
Author Buttercup84 Posted April 6, 2013 Author Posted April 6, 2013 Maybe he is also embaressed, because he farted when he finished. I pretended not to hear. Hahaha. 1
Radu Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 Thanks everyone. I just have to move on I guess. He can contact me, just needs to ask his friend for my number. I never had a ONS before, but it was fun and the first time I been with a guy since a very hard breakup. And I am all good Just a shame as we really hit it off. But life goes on. I hope it works out for you. 1
Author Buttercup84 Posted April 6, 2013 Author Posted April 6, 2013 I hope it works out for you. Thank you ♥
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