Socom Posted September 13, 2004 Posted September 13, 2004 Maybe someone can help?? My girl left 2 weeks ago and moved in with another man. She tells me that she needs time to think and i am trying to give it to her. During this time i have learned that i have not been giving everything that i can and was talking all that she had. We have been together for 2.5 years and she has 2 children ages 8-4 from another relationship. The kids call me dad. Her son is in school where we live and she has been driving the 30 minutes each day to take him there. After taking him to school she come to our house and lays in bed with me and tells me that she misses me and loves me. During this time she tells me that she wants to come home and will. Then the weekend comes and all my effort is lost. I have offered in the past few months that she can quit her job and i can take care of her and the kids and she could go to school. She wants that so much because she hates her job. Is that still ok to offer? So this past week it started off by her telling me that she is moving out and transfering schools. I accepted that and told her that i would still like to be friends. She told me that she still wants to work on us and said that she wants to get help. Well i found that help and the appt is tomorrow. She has agreed on going. Then on Thursday i meet her on her way home from work and we talked and she hugged and kisses me like she never has, like she really missed me. The kids started to cry because they wanted to come home. She then told me that she will be home on Sunday (today). Friday, she came over in the morning and we had a great day loying in bed kissing and loving each other and then went out for the afternoon. She would grab me and tell me how much she loves me and that she will be home soon. So this morning i talked to her and she told me that she was coming to get her things and was very angry. I then asked what the past few days meant to her and she said that it meant nothing and she was only being a cold hearted bitch. I want to believe that but i cant. I talked to her Mom and her best friend and they both told me that she is so upset and loves and misses me so much but i afraid of getting hurt. And this guy that she is with is controlling her and telling her what she wants. They also told me that her and the kids are not happy where they are. So I am really confused, what should my next move be? Should i let her take all her things? Should we even go to counseling? Also i have a ring that i was planning on giving her in 2 weeks for her birthday should i offer it to her? Her mother says that she would accept it because that is what she always wanted. But, i dont want the ring as the reason that she comes back, i want her to come back because she wants to. PLEASE HELP
overseas2004 Posted September 13, 2004 Posted September 13, 2004 Your girlfriend is a ho and you need to let her go
Papillon Posted September 13, 2004 Posted September 13, 2004 Your girlfriend is a ho and you need to let her go HOT DAMN! Fifty Cent IN DA HOOOOUUUUSE!
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