CorridorE Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 Now ex-boyfriend of three years cheated, broke up with me two months ago... no contact... but yesterday he showed up at my house to get his things... clothes, books, xbox, other personal belongings... His new girlfriend was with him... He knocked, came in, got his things (they were already in a box) and left without looking at me or saying goodbye. I don't know how exactly I'm feeling. Just venting... thanks.
sharkbite Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 I would say you should just be thankful he is not your problem anymore, no respect at all showing up with the new gf and unannounced......be calm....be happy! 1
cavalier99 Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 Sounds like a loser. Good riddance. Sorry. Cav 1
Author CorridorE Posted April 1, 2013 Author Posted April 1, 2013 Sounds like a loser. Good riddance. Sorry. Cav No need to be sorry; ultimately, I'm glad he's now out of my life for good. It's just a lot to take in. 1
Poptree Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 No respect for him, that was messed up. You can do better. 1
BrokenHeartedSavior Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 That re-defines "Low life" Correct, he's HER problem now! 2
AKisBaked Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 you shouldn't have even opened the door is you saw that he was with his new girl.. and the dude sounds like a complete doochebag 2
Author CorridorE Posted April 1, 2013 Author Posted April 1, 2013 you shouldn't have even opened the door is you saw that he was with his new girl.. and the dude sounds like a complete doochebag Maybe not, but I already had his things in a box in the basement so I wouldn't have to see them around the house after the BU... figured I might as well get them out of the house now. 1
AKisBaked Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 That's a great step for you to know that his stuff is out of your house and you won't have to deal with it anymore. Also plus since he didn't talk to you its best that you didnt talk to him either. Silence can be very powerful =) 1
Author CorridorE Posted April 2, 2013 Author Posted April 2, 2013 That's a great step for you to know that his stuff is out of your house and you won't have to deal with it anymore. Also plus since he didn't talk to you its best that you didnt talk to him either. Silence can be very powerful =) Yes, I'm very glad I didn't try to talk to him. We exchanged very few words. He knocked, I opened the door, and he asked for his things. I said they were in a box by the basement stairs; he could get them himself. He asked if I minded if he wore his boots down stairs. I said yes, I do mind, take them off. He took them off and went down to get the box; I stayed upstairs--didn't look at the girl. And then they left. I suppose it could have been worse. 1
Author CorridorE Posted April 2, 2013 Author Posted April 2, 2013 (edited) Sigh... when he showed up with his new girlfriend I was fine--glad to be rid of him. But now a few days later I saw pictures of them all lovey and coupley together on a friend's facebook, and I feel awful again... I think it's because now they have made their relationship official and open to the public, which to me was worse than seeing them together in person when it was just me and them. We all have highs and lows... Edited April 2, 2013 by CorridorE
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