helena_bloom Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 hi my friend from college wanted something with me since the year has started(since we have met) but i had boyfriend and i always avoided being alone with him, telling him i don't want anything except friendship.. after half of year he gave up, we were hanging up rarely. recently,i broke up with bf, and few of us went out, and that friend too.. we had sex. after that, he calls me to come to his place. he didn't invite me to coffee or something like that. so what's the problem now? thought he wanted some kind of a relationship with me, not only sex.. i was wronged,i guess. what should i do? think i started liking him..
KissMeOrNot Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 Since you've already had sex with him he probably thinks that is all you want, or he doesn't feel the need to try to win you because he already got the sex. Maybe suggest going out somewhere instead and see how he reacts, or hold off on the sex and see if he leaves.
FitChick Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 All he ever wanted was sex. Next time he asks tell him "No thanks. My boyfriend was much better in bed than you are so I can't settle for less." 1
soccerrprp Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 You= drunk. Him= took advantage and treats you like his bed-mate. He wanted the sex.
TaraMaiden Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 Sex with friend = Friend with Benefits. That's all he thinks you are. Fall off his radar and never talk to him again. Ever. EV-ER. Huh! Some 'friend' - !
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