Blainens84 Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 So I'm recently separated and it was my decision and my fault to a point, I kissed another guy, but have been trying to leave for four years. I know I know why did I string him along for that long...but really I just kept giving in when he would cry and beg me to stay. I have been treated like crap for far too long and just can't keep my head in the sand any longer. But now I'm out and over the course of the past nine years, I've let all of my friends go, only hanging out with his friends and couples we've met together. Now that I'm the one to leave everyone's on his side and rightfully so I suppose. They don't know the whole story and only know that I kissed someone else, I don't want to urn everyone or anyone against him. At the same time I need someone to call my friend. Someone who can hear the whole story. My family knows most of it but is just learning about it. They wonder why I let it go as long as I did. As a single woman it's difficult emotionally to go out on my own to meet people. I also need advise that I would typically get from a friend. I reconnected with an old friend recently but he's hundreds of miles away and he's a great sounding board but can't go to a movie or dinner...how do I move on and meet people
Mr. Lucky Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 There's a million affiliated groups out there that do everything from discuss books to volunteering to bike riding to stock picking to playing tennis. Pick one that interests you and jump in. The friends I made in a similar situation were instrumental in helping me get through divorce. Easy to get started and a nice way to meet folks in a low-pressure environment... Mr. Lucky 1
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