Rubix123 Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 Well i dont know really where to put this.. its a mixature of a problem to do with my parents and my long distance boyfriend... sorry if this is in the wrong forum... (read all before sugesting to move it.) my parents used to live in quite a big town in Scotland.. They moved to a smaller town many years ago when I was a lot younger.. Because my dad wanted the job here... 4 years down the line he gets made redundant.... He finds more jobs yes... But then doesn't work anymore cause he is depressed... My mum starts going on about moving back to her old town to be with her parents and she has done for about a decade (10 years) I didn't really make a decision on whether I wanted to or not... Not that my decision would of mattered but if they were so keen to go back why didnt they when I was younger.... They say they didnt wanna interrupt my life with school etc now I'm at college and I'm doing the best I've done in my life.... My life is here the friends I've made... The people I know.... All the places near by I know of and I have grown so close to all these little places they just expect me to jump up and move now that I have made my roots... My boyfriend lives 4... Possibly 5 hours away and it's hard enough to see him once a month 2 times if I'm very lucky trains aren't very reliable all the time and now they want to move even further away (the weather is even more hazardous in this place they wanna move to) when we were snowed in at my house for a week.... When her family are only an hour away.... I feel selfish for saying it but that's hardly the amount of time I have to travel to see my boyfriend.... I've had enough of it I don't want to move... I'm suppose to have a carer which means it would be dangerous living on my own... but she keeps saying They have a life too I know they do but surely they could just wait a year or two til I'm done and can move in with my boyfriend once I have a job? Then they'll have all the time they want to move to wherever they wanna live. It's just I couldn't stand living even more further away from my boyfriend that I already do and I just feel like my mum doesn't even care she says that there are still trains but not any that link my town that I live now to where she wants to go... She says my boyfriend can stay any time yet she has such a big problem about him coming to stay here. I feel like she is trying to blackmail me. It's not like I'm living here without paying money I pay my way I pay for food and my rent etc... I couldn't live on my own. Not with my disability. i can see why my mum wants to move back somewhere to be close to her parents before they aren't around anymore but surely being an hour away isn't bad compared to how long I have to travel to see my guy. I can't take this anymore I thought living where we did suited us all but I feel as though she's not taking my feelings into consideration . I love my boyfriend but I love my family too I just think moving would be a selfish move by them I think by staying here it means everyone is fairly content and happy and quite central for everywhere.. My mum is making a big deal of it and I don't wanna hear it no more.
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