Sivok Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 1)Annoyingly high standards (yet i've met them in the past, so that's tough to shake) 2)Hesitate with sexual escalation 3)Travelling job makes it hard to build relationships
iKING Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 Haha. Also when you talk too much, you are always bound to say something you regret later. Happens to me every time. Only if you knew what comments I have gotten from people when having big curly hair. men really hate it here! Certain men and ethnicities seem to really like it tho but they are not the majority here. Story of my life. I really don't see how curly hair is an issue though. Kind of baffling really. Give us some dirt! This is a no-holds, spill your worst traits thread, It's hard to find our own worst traits but anyone is capable of it.
Leigh 87 Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 Thanks for the much needed jolt of negativity, Eternal Sunshine! Don't forget to keep it coming when things get a little too positive around here:sick::bunny: My worst traits: - I have a big nose - I fart too much - the above two turn guys off sex from me 1
Star Gazer Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 1. Impatient; I want to know if *this* has potential NOW. 2. Over-analyze; I take some of the fun out of the experience by over-thinking (but the thinking is usually right!). 3. Focus too quickly; Other good guys get passed over in the initial stages because I get swept up by another. 2
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 1. Too awesome 2. Too good-looking. 3. Too many girls like me 2
MsSmurf Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 Hmmm my 3 worst traits in dating would be.... 1) Too direct. I prefer to clearly yet politely state what works for me and what doesn't and skip all the stupid talking in code business. Apparently guys find this to be a huge turn off, yet they're always complaining about we ladies not being direct. *sigh* 2) Intolerant of spontaneity. To me it translates to being undisciplined, irresponsible, lazy, and inconsiderate of the time and needs of others. This one often overlaps with #1 for me because I'll say something like "if you want to take me out of town I would really appreciate having a few days notice." And then it turns into a whole conversation about what exactly I meant by that (ummm how is that statement confusing?) and me being accused of not knowing how to have fun (ummm how can I have fun if I neglected to do something urgent that will create a mess to clean up when I get home?). 3) Distrustful. As much as I enjoy being happily committed and desire a lifetime commitment, I fully expect a guy to not follow through on the majority of what he says he'll do. This comes from years of disappointments big, small, and in between. To work around this I simply expect to take care of things on my own and decline his offers because then I can't be pissed off when he doesn't follow through. Take my birthday as an example. I have been left dressed up and waiting around too many times by guys who claimed to want to take me out for some nice surprise. Rather than go through that again I just ban future guys from doing anything and often don't even tell them when the day is. It doesn't need acknowledging and I don't need gifts. This way the day can't be ruined by anyone but me =) Apparently this drives guys crazy because they just don't get I'm serious which again goes back to #1 lol.
KissMeOrNot Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 I'm too impatient. I over-analyze everything. I don't trust easily.
dasein Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 1. Penis too large for some women combined with godlike sexual prowess. 2. Good looks to the point of intimidating many women. 3. Kindness and generosity to the point of omnibenevolence. OR 1. Allowing baggage undue sway in navigation sometimes. 2. Expecting too much reason as opposed to accepting human emotion. 3. Undue disdain for many matters of taste that seem to attract women. One or the other of the above sets is surely true. 1
RedRobin Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 I don't 'date... not like most people do these days anyway. Impatience. Uncanny BS detector and willingness to act on it decisively.
RedRobin Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 (edited) Translation = "I'm terrified of being hurt so I preemptively reject." Is that the best you can do? Edited March 31, 2013 by RedRobin
soccerrprp Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 Translation = "I'm terrified of being hurt so I preemptively reject." Dated a woman like this. Her BS detector was clearly off.
RedRobin Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 I'll try.... Translation: "Which wallet is yours?" "The one that says 'Bad Mother F*cker' on it" So, you have something against f*cking Good Mothers?? ha ha
RedRobin Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 (edited) Dated a woman like this. Her BS detector was clearly off. How do you know it was off? According to her, she might be dead on... I honestly can't think of single situation where I dumped a guy prematurely. If anything, I should have done it sooner. Edited April 1, 2013 by RedRobin 1
RachR Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 Yeah. I guess I misunderstood. I thought we were describing people we'd never date... Hahaha this gave me a good laugh. I was thinking, whoa, harsh on yourself there... 1
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 Yeah. I guess I misunderstood. I thought we were describing people we'd never date... LMAO HAHAHAHAHAHAA Dude, I literally just fell on the floor laughing and couldn't catch my breath! Your comment just made my night. 1
Giraffe1 Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 1. Extremely independent 2. Short temper 3. Blunt honesty 1
pyramid Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 1. Impatient - been working on taking one day/step at a time & enjoying it as it unfolds 2. Overanalyze/overthink eeeeeeeeverything 3. Get emotionally invested too quickly
TouchedByViolet Posted April 1, 2013 Posted April 1, 2013 1. Highly introverted 2. Excel at being awkward 3. Not a great conversationalist
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