Marek Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 So over the past four weeks (since the semester started) this one cute chick has been sitting beside me each lesson for this one particular unit (it's the only class we have together). These are smaller classes, with roughly 25 to 30 students attending. There were always plenty of other seats available, without anyone next to them, that she could sit on. However, she always seeks me out and sits next to me. Obviously, she doesn't dislike me. But I don't know if she actually likes me. We chit chat in class and she's really cool and down to earth. Do you think she likes me? It seems odd that every lesson we have, she'll sit next to me. How do I proceed? I don't want to scare her off.
Emissary Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 You're already chatting to her on a regular basis, if you casually suggest you go for coffee you won't scare off a typical girl.
LexiB Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 When you say she 'seeks you out', do you sit in the same seat each class or do you move around? Could be she likes you; could be she (like most students) likes sitting in a particular seat. If you've been movin all around the room and every single time she still zooms in on you and grabs the seat next to you, then yeah, I'd say that's a pretty clear sign she's hopin something comes of it.
TaraMaiden Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 Please don't refer to young ladies as 'chicks'. We don't call you 'cock', do we? If you begin to develop some humane respect for members of the opposite sex, you'd be amazed at how far that bit of respect will carry you. Just saying....
Author Marek Posted March 31, 2013 Author Posted March 31, 2013 When you say she 'seeks you out', do you sit in the same seat each class or do you move around? Could be she likes you; could be she (like most students) likes sitting in a particular seat. If you've been movin all around the room and every single time she still zooms in on you and grabs the seat next to you, then yeah, I'd say that's a pretty clear sign she's hopin something comes of it. I sit in a different seat every time. You're already chatting to her on a regular basis, if you casually suggest you go for coffee you won't scare off a typical girl. Will do this next week.
Author Marek Posted March 31, 2013 Author Posted March 31, 2013 Please don't refer to young ladies as 'chicks'. We don't call you 'cock', do we? If you begin to develop some humane respect for members of the opposite sex, you'd be amazed at how far that bit of respect will carry you. Just saying.... My humble apology. Sorry. "Young lady" it is. I didn't think "chick" was a demeaning term.
JuneJulySeptember Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 Please don't refer to young ladies as 'chicks'. We don't call you 'cock', do we? If you begin to develop some humane respect for members of the opposite sex, you'd be amazed at how far that bit of respect will carry you. Just saying.... Hahaha. What a joke! The men who objectify women the most are the ones who get the most women. I have SO MANY stories of women chasing men, the same men who are talking trash about how unattractive they are. Book it. If only you gals knew what us guys hear behind closed doors.
TaraMaiden Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 My humble apology. Sorry. "Young lady" it is. I didn't think "chick" was a demeaning term. Let's be honest - not every woman who hears it will consider it demeaning or insulting. But some will. I simply suggest you stay on the safe side.... Hahaha. What a joke! The men who objectify women the most are the ones who get the most women. Yes, they're called 'players', and while it may seem their lives are full of women , these are the sad guys who in middle-age, will find themselves alone, because the only women they can attract are those who like lives similar to theirs: Meet 'em' woo them phukk 'em, leave 'em... You know - sad and lonely old geezers.... I have SO MANY stories of women chasing men, the same men who are talking trash about how unattractive they are. Ok, start a new thread and let's hear them all. This should be interesting. How many is "SO MANY"....? Book it. If only you gals knew what us guys hear behind closed doors. And you have no idea how true the reverse is either.... still, we could do with the laugh.
JuneJulySeptember Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 And you have no idea how true the reverse is either.... still, we could do with the laugh. Oh. Believe me. I know. You don't think that I believe women are shallow? Have you read any of my posts? I just felt the need to point out the irony that the guys that women chase are the same ones who talk mad trash about how unattractive women are. And no, it's not always the players.
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