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Hi, my bf of seven months just left me out of nowhere.I really.didn't see it coming. He told me three weeks ago that he was in love with me he wouldn't tell me the firat time I told him cua he wasn't reasy and didn't believe in throwing the word aeound. Anyway he woyld text and call everyday first spent every day off with me ( he would ask me I never pressure him into seeing me) .he intr me to his fam even took me to meet his mom in florida. I'm shocked and confused.he only said we were in diff area of life (I not working right now) he was so sweet to me and after break up he has been cold and mean. Which I don't understand causei was sweet to him and he never treated me bad at all. So I stopped contacting him. For a week and all of a sudden I get a text from him saying. How mad he was credit card company (he got a credit card for me to use nothing big just for gas and things like that) then he says I can still keep it amd just pitch in on payments. When I get on my feet.the asks mehow I was doing.I told him good.so a few more days go by and he sends a text. Asking me if I watched a movie and starts to talk throughout the day bout random stuff. He occasionally will like things on my Facebook. And follow me on twitter. But nothing solid. As far as I know he isn't ib another's relationship from what I have heard from his mom (she texts me every so often) but idk. I'm confused. What do u think?

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  • Find a job
  • Unfriend and block your ex on Facebook and Twitter
  • Stop using his credit card, cut it up and send it back to him or the bank
  • Block his texts and phone calls
  • Ask his mother to stop texting you because you need the space to heal
  • Take each day at a time

I'm sorry this happened to you but you need to get your head together and focus on some practical solutions to get yourself out of this.

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Hi, my bf of seven months just left me out of nowhere.I really.didn't see it coming. He told me three weeks ago that he was in love with me he wouldn't tell me the firat time I told him cua he wasn't reasy and didn't believe in throwing the word aeound. Anyway he woyld text and call everyday first spent every day off with me ( he would ask me I never pressure him into seeing me) .he intr me to his fam even took me to meet his mom in florida. I'm shocked and confused.he only said we were in diff area of life (I not working right now) he was so sweet to me and after break up he has been cold and mean. Which I don't understand causei was sweet to him and he never treated me bad at all. So I stopped contacting him. For a week and all of a sudden I get a text from him saying. How mad he was credit card company (he got a credit card for me to use nothing big just for gas and things like that) then he says I can still keep it amd just pitch in on payments. When I get on my feet.the asks mehow I was doing.I told him good.so a few more days go by and he sends a text. Asking me if I watched a movie and starts to talk throughout the day bout random stuff. He occasionally will like things on my Facebook. And follow me on twitter. But nothing solid. As far as I know he isn't ib another's relationship from what I have heard from his mom (she texts me every so often) but idk. I'm confused. What do u think?

 

 

 

Stop getting trapped in his game ...... he needs to be consistent if he is in relationship .......if i was you first thing i would do is return his credit card and stop taking any sort of favor from him ......

Divert ur mind completely from him ......you will get more hurt .... guy who is not consistent and plays game like this ........are waste of your emotions and feelings .....they are just playing with ur heart....

rather focus on ur career and find someone else who is worth having ur time/emotions/heart

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