Lonleyboy13 Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 Was with hEr for a year and a half things moved very quickly. Broke up because she feels lost and needs to focus on herself. I got all my stuff back because I went to pick it up. Now really struggling to move on and have nc I've deleted everything gotten rid of any memories but I'm really struggling to focus on myself she literally consumes my everything thought. My dreams are constantly about her and I wake up so angry that she ruined the relationship we had. I don't know how to believe that this has all happened it honestly feels like a bad dream and I keep feeling she's going to come home. I honestly don't know what to do I really need help. I'm trying but nothing seems to convince me that this is all really happening and its ****ing with my head. I would love to fast forward time till I hit a point where I am happy..
NewPerspective93 Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 It's during these turbulent times when you become a different person, for the better. You will see things from a different perspective and you will become wiser as a result. You'll see what you could've done differently and what you did wrong. Trust me, you will be happy and you will find love again. This is going to be a rough ride, but I guarantee you it will be all right. You might disagree at this moment, but things will be fine. Cheers.
siankat Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 you already said it mate...and i feel for you i really do and i have been there...and recently as well. you will feel glad when u dont feel like this anymore but its going to take self control (nc) and working on yourself because you are and always will be a whole person and it's too easy to forget that in this time of extreme emotional stress, and keeping faith (as you cant be sure when that day is going to come) but there are certain things you can do to help yourself. if you need some advice to read through, natalie lue baggage reclaim is sharp, insightful and practical stuff and doesnt go to far into introspection (which can mean all u end up doing is thinking..thinking) .. also Oracle who started the thread how to survive the end of a relationship, was really great But listen, none of this means that the future will be bleak, if she was meant to be she will, but you are a whole person who needs to remember that NOW and work on each of your days like you believe that. You have done so well already in how you have handled it..keep it up!
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