dirtysweet Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 He doesn't make any moves to show he's really too into me. We'll have long conversations where we flirt heavily, and I love talking to him, but he's made a point to say things like he's not relationship material, etc. I need to get over this guy bc I know it's just not good for me. How do I do it?
NewPerspective93 Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 Well, you have your answer; he doesn't want a relationship. He might just like being playful with you without actually being with you. What kind of thing is that? Do you want a relationship? If so, drop this guy and move on. Why hold on to someone whom might not want what you want? It's completely futile. You just realize that he doesn't want a relationship. Do not stick around thinking you can change his mind, because you can't. People make these types of decisions on their own. Sorry for saying this, but I feel that is the case. Pack your bags and leave the train station. Cheers.
Author dirtysweet Posted March 30, 2013 Author Posted March 30, 2013 i know that i have to do it, I just don't know how to do it.
NewPerspective93 Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 You just don't let it get to you. Get busy doing stuff. If it helps, think about it rationally; why do you want someone who doesn't want you? You need to find someone who WANTS to be in a relationship with you. This guy isn't giving you the respect you deserve since he is just playing around while you want something more. You don't need crap from some guy who doesn't know what he wants. Right? Cheers.
Apolodor Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 If you have a crush on someone and try moving on by rationalizing things, it might be a slow and painful road to recovery. I know it's a cliché, but the best way to get over someone is to get under someone new. This has worked wonders for me recently......
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