underwater2010 Posted April 5, 2013 Posted April 5, 2013 You may be right, but generally if I start drinking one brand of beer, I don't switch midstream and if this had not been a conversation we had had previously, I wouldn't have thought much about it. The situation with my husband and his xOW is much more recent. His affair came AFTER mine, so it's more fresh and no contact was demanded in my case and because of my husband's business and his fear of reputation being damaged, etc., he has not gone 100% no contact. So this woman just shows up whenever she wants. This will be addressed this weekend, however. Maybe that is the reason you are questioning the lack of "closure" as you put it. Because your husband has yet to go no contact with his OW. I think you both need MC and IC due to the madhatter nature of your relationship.
Author lilmisscantbewrong Posted April 5, 2013 Author Posted April 5, 2013 Could very well be. Time will tell. Thanks so much for your responses - not sure it's still clear, but many things to think about for sure!
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