Mr.White Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 (edited) Life is good...What can i say? I am 18, 3 months out of a 2 year relationship from High School and I live in Southern California. I was an emotional wreck after my BU and was a complete disaster. The first month: Recovering, listening to sad/love songs, luckily got a winter class and kept my mind off the BU during homework and such. Hung out with friends, saved A LOT of money, first party finally, and I planned my first few raves with my friends (I have always wanted to attend one once I was 18 but my ex was always against it) The second month: The month of love sucked during the beginning but I was slowly feeling better....MUCH BETTER. I do not remember much during this month except I was slowly getting out of the emotional wreck I was in. I began to talk to old friends a lot more, reached out to them and many of my friends were finally informed that I was now single (Their faces were deprived of blood, and I was friend zoned by so many cute girls because of my ex. I will work my way out of that definitely though!) The third month (March) : Oh......where do I start...... The month of my raves, beginning of my new life, and the month where I no longer am emotional about her. This whole month has been such a great month. I met many new people this month. I attended two raves this month, and I am obsessed with that scene now. My first rave was Swedish House Mafia in Los Angeles and I went solely for the music and met some cool people but my group was definitely not feeling as cool and social as me so it wasn't as awesome as I could have made it to be. My second raved called Beyond Wonderland was fantastic. I did not want to be tied down to my group like at the last rave so I decided to leave them for the night and roam like a lone wolf. I met awesome people, literally had the time of my life that night. It was the best night of my life so far. Now I am winding back down and getting back to school and work and friends. I know April will have more in store for me and I am looking forward to it. Lesson learned: During the first month or two after the BU do not go all wild and partying. I decided to party to get over her but that was not that much fun. The only reason you should go partying is because you are no longer emotionally attached and are almost or are over your ex. I have also not checked my Ex's social networks because she is history and there is no need. Curiosity killed the cat. Life gets better my friend. The sun will rise and you will live to see it. Live life to the fullest. I hope you have enjoyed reading my journey so far. It is barely the start of it Edited March 30, 2013 by Mr.White 1
RiceaRoni Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 Life is good...What can i say? I am 18, 3 months out of a 2 year relationship from High School and I live in Southern California. I was an emotional wreck after my BU and was a complete disaster. The first month: Recovering, listening to sad/love songs, luckily got a winter class and kept my mind off the BU during homework and such. Hung out with friends, saved A LOT of money, first party finally, and I planned my first few raves with my friends (I have always wanted to attend one once I was 18 but my ex was always against it) The second month: The month of love sucked during the beginning but I was slowly feeling better....MUCH BETTER. I do not remember much during this month except I was slowly getting out of the emotional wreck I was in. I began to talk to old friends a lot more, reached out to them and many of my friends were finally informed that I was now single (Their faces were deprived of blood, and I was friend zoned by so many cute girls because of my ex. I will work my way out of that definitely though!) The third month (March) : Oh......where do I start...... The month of my raves, beginning of my new life, and the month where I no longer am emotional about her. This whole month has been such a great month. I met many new people this month. I attended two raves this month, and I am obsessed with that scene now. My first rave was Swedish House Mafia in Los Angeles and I went solely for the music and met some cool people but my group was definitely not feeling as cool and social as me so it wasn't as awesome as I could have made it to be. My second raved called Beyond Wonderland was fantastic. I did not want to be tied down to my group like at the last rave so I decided to leave them for the night and roam like a lone wolf. I met awesome people, literally had the time of my life that night. It was the best night of my life so far. Now I am winding back down and getting back to school and work and friends. I know April will have more in store for me and I am looking forward to it. Lesson learned: During the first month or two after the BU do not go all wild and partying. I decided to party to get over her but that was not that much fun. The only reason you should go partying is because you are no longer emotionally attached and are almost or are over your ex. I have also not checked my Ex's social networks because she is history and there is no need. Curiosity killed the cat. Life gets better my friend. The sun will rise and you will live to see it. Live life to the fullest. I hope you have enjoyed reading my journey so far. It is barely the start of it Thank you for this post it's good to know that someone the same age as me went through the same thing. I'm 5/6 months after my BU from a 14 month relationship. Things do get better and I feel better than I did months ago
Lillygoose Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 Things are slowly getting better for me, 4 Months out of an 4.5 year relationship
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