yaell Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 Hi everyone.. I would like a "new point of view". I met a guy through a dating site, we chatted a bit on fb, and then we met. we talked. we laughed he touched my hands a bit, and we even kissed; in my opinion it is a good first date.. Now it's been three days, no sms/msg on fb... i could never understand this "dating rules" i mean.. how long should i wait until he calls? if he didn't call until now - it means that maybe he is not into me? or should I txt?? would like to hear your opinion about that.. because sometimes i just cant talk with my girlfriends - because I think sometimes they cant be honest, and not in a bad way - well.. i guess you know what i mean... Yours. Yael
rocketman122 Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 ma kore Yaeli doesnt seem a serious person. leave you up in the air seems immature IMO. many guys do that to build your interest level up. till he shows hes serious, just dont wait. but it could be something happened. maybe send him a quick everything ok? message. good luck.
Apolodor Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 I enjoy the predicament you find yourself into..... I mean, you deserve it. You go on these dating sites, keep ignoring all the guys who would give their right arm to have a gf, and pick up the cute one who you'll never get in real life. What do you expect? These guys are players, they like to have many options, you're nothing special to him. He probably is building you up so that next time you meet (if there is going to be a next time...) he can bang your brains out. He did not contact you because you do not cross his mind -- you're just a piece of meat for him.
Cutiepie1976 Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 Don't bother IMO. Not interested. Move on. If you had turned your cheek when he tried to kiss you or something, then the onus would be on you to fix the misconception that you might not be or aren't interested. As long as it's clear at the end of the first date that you're interested, no need to pursue. No dating rules BTW. Just continue using common sense.
veggirl Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 What I would have done is text a "thanks for tonight, I had a great time!" after the date and then waited to see what he said. it's always best to set up the 2nd date at the end of the 1st, but I don't know if you'd feel comfortable doing that. On my 1st date with my bf he was like "we should go out again" or something at the end of the date and I said "yeah! when?" and he picked a day and activity on the spot!
Author yaell Posted March 30, 2013 Author Posted March 30, 2013 Ugh.. Im so frustrated, I mean.. If he's not interested, say something.. Be a man, txt "hi., you're nice but..." I can handle it. I guess I'll just leave it alone.. Thank you!
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