FailedFirstLove Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 When we were together we had a fight and he went and got drunk at a friends place. ( his friend that was there told me) He was so drunk and upset he was crying and his guy friend was drunk and passed out. His girlfriend was with my ex and put his head on her chest and holding him the whole night... while her bf was passed out...she was also kissing his head. at that time he told me that he would stop being friends with her but i knew it wasnt going to happen. so i told him that just stay away from her more and never get drunk or sleep over her house again. and he agreed. 6 months later he goes out with them all night and goes sleepsover her house once more. he said he was with her brother mostly but i cant trust her again. i dont mind them distant friends but being close and sleeping over like this i just cant stand. We are now friends well trying to be but i told him if we were to stay freinds i still cant stand him being close to her again. and he goes so im suppose to tell my friend that she cant be freinds with me because i hate her.... wtfffff i hate her???? i have a reason for it not cause im paranoid or hate her for no reason. and plus i never once said dont be freinds with her! jsut distant himself, dont get drunk and sleep over! he told me he confronted her and her bf about that night and she admitted to it... she told them she was trying to comfort him and her boyfreind just said thanks for telling me this and that was it,,,,
lissa90 Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 If he is going to sleep with her, he is going to do it regardless of anything he has previously said. You obviously don't trust him so I don't understand your continual friendship with him. The more threatened you become of this woman, the more power you give her and the more of a prize you make him feel she is. Why not just be nonchalant about this? Or maybe pre occupy yourself with friends who won't hurt you like he has. You putting sanctions on whether he can or can't see her isn't going to change a thing. So you might as well try and get into a place where you don't care if he did or not.
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