ThatJustHappened Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 I'm having a rough time tonight. We've been seeing each other again with no expectations, and it's been going well..he's actually been great lately. I've had a lot of car trouble and he's been super helpful and lovely. But I'm sad tonight and I wish we were fully back together and I could just go over to his place and cuddle with him without him feeling pressured. I feel him doing that guy thing where they pull away after a few good close weeks and it's upsetting me, although I'm trying not to show it..so I'm letting it out here. Everyone wants to get their ex back but nobody seems to realize how hard it is to try to make it work the second time around. It hurts that you're not what you used to be and it hurts knowing that it might not work out again, and that you could be wasting your time. Sometimes I just wish it was back to normal and we didn't have to go so slowly. Just hurting tonight I guess.
OwlSoul Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 Welp, I do realize it, doing it third time. Cray. When you would fail second time bc of emotions, you would want to take everything REALLY slowly by yourself. Looks like you're more emotionally demanding in the relationship. You cannot fake it really, since your partner knows you really well. I'd suggest using the time in a more productive way, by investing your emotions to yourself. Enjoy yourself by your own, get the attitude that you're 100% fine without him being around. Basically, think of him as he would be just one more friend. You know, we can not to talk to some closest friends for weeks.
Author ThatJustHappened Posted March 30, 2013 Author Posted March 30, 2013 I'm feeling better. I just had a tough night. I told myself to get over it and I did. He was supposed to come with me to run an errand today but I told him not to worry about it..I could tell he really didn't want to but he would have done it anyway. I'm going to spend the day with myself doing chores and unwinding. I know men do that rubber band thing. It's hard when that coincides with my PMS. I know he loves me. I'm going to back away and give him time in his man cave, haha. He'll be back.
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