Mark1 Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 -In college I would always see this cute chick around campus. Never had a reason to talk to her, so I never did. -2 years after graduation, I was on campus to meet with a professor. The girl was working the front desk, so I asked her which room the prof's office was in. She told me. She was really kind and sweet. -On my way out after meeting with the prof, I said by the girl, and didn't ask her ANYTHING. Her name, number, anything. Any way I can go back??
JuneJulySeptember Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 -In college I would always see this cute chick around campus. Never had a reason to talk to her, so I never did. -2 years after graduation, I was on campus to meet with a professor. The girl was working the front desk, so I asked her which room the prof's office was in. She told me. She was really kind and sweet. -On my way out after meeting with the prof, I said by the girl, and didn't ask her ANYTHING. Her name, number, anything. Any way I can go back?? Yea. Do it. Assuming it's close to where you live. I mean it's all about looks really. I know nothing about you. There's a chance she thinks you're really good looking and will jump all over you. I just had this happen to a younger guy I know who similarly asked out a pretty hot gal who was a stranger. She was draped over him like a wet towel on their first date.
Author Mark1 Posted March 30, 2013 Author Posted March 30, 2013 Yea. Do it. Assuming it's close to where you live. I mean it's all about looks really. I know nothing about you. There's a chance she thinks you're really good looking and will jump all over you. I just had this happen to a younger guy I know who similarly asked out a pretty hot gal who was a stranger. She was draped over him like a wet towel on their first date. She's probably out of my league, but I'd still like to try. I'm more concerned about how to not make it so creepy that Im seeking her out again.
JuneJulySeptember Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 She's probably out of my league, but I'd still like to try. I'm more concerned about how to not make it so creepy that Im seeking her out again. Yea, absolutely. Go for it. No ties. If she were your classmate or co-worker, there'd be reason to hesitate, but none here. As far as you being creepy, one of the last women who rejected me, I knew her for a year, and she ending up pouncing on some random dude who approached her at the supermarket. That should give you a clue as to what women find 'creepy'.
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 She's probably out of my league, but I'd still like to try. I'm more concerned about how to not make it so creepy that Im seeking her out again. Stop caring what people think. Who cares if you come off as creepy to a random girl that you'll probably never see again?
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 Yea. Do it. Assuming it's close to where you live. I mean it's all about looks really. I know nothing about you. There's a chance she thinks you're really good looking and will jump all over you. I just had this happen to a younger guy I know who similarly asked out a pretty hot gal who was a stranger. She was draped over him like a wet towel on their first date. I just facepalmed so hard at that statement.
KungFuJoe Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 I just facepalmed so hard at that statement. Well he's got a point. Op said they never spoke so what else is there to go on? His sparkling personality?
darkmoon Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 stalking is creepy, you're not stalking her you merely want to chase her so just go to her and say "fancy a drink sometime?" you gotta start somewhere, enjoy...
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 Well he's got a point. Op said they never spoke so what else is there to go on? His sparkling personality? What the other poster was saying that all OP needs to do is be good looking and she will love him....and if he's not good looking, he'll fail. That's why I facepalmed.
neveragain34 Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 Do you know her name? It so, find her on Facebook and approach her there. If she rejects you, it's easier than face to face rejection, plus you won't be putting her on the spot in person.
JuneJulySeptember Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 What the other poster was saying that all OP needs to do is be good looking and she will love him....and if he's not good looking, he'll fail. That's why I facepalmed. Close. You can still screw it up if you are good looking to her. More the point, you have no chance if you don't fit her physical profile. Not every woman has a strict physical profile, but most do. Once men know this, they can go about the game a lot easier.
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 Close. You can still screw it up if you are good looking to her. More the point, you have no chance if you don't fit her physical profile. Not every woman has a strict physical profile, but most do. Once men know this, they can go about the game a lot easier. Negative. It sounds like your inexperience and bad advice won't stop the OP from doing what he should do (going back to a move on that girl). So there's no point in arguing with you. You can go back to playing your World of Warcraft now.
JuneJulySeptember Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 Negative. It sounds like your inexperience and bad advice won't stop the OP from doing what he should do (going back to a move on that girl). So there's no point in arguing with you. You can go back to playing your World of Warcraft now. What are you talking about? I'm the first one who told him to go for it.
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