CARL45 Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 I recently was talking to my mother about a coworker at my job. I was telling her about how graphically she described her relationship with her boyfriend. She would tell me about not knowing how long she had been on the pill and about sleeping with severely men. My mother thinks the woman is hitting on me, but I don't. I find her talking disgusting,but funny. Basically I told my mother that women who really want a man present themselves as angels, while women who don't look at you as a romantic interest will tell you anything and everything about themselves. Does anyone agree or disagree with this idea?
neveragain34 Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 She may be coming on to you sexually, but nothing more. If I liked a guy, I definitely wouldn't be telling him about my sex life with other men!
Eternal Sunshine Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 You are correct. I would never talk like that to a man I am interested in. I would only present my good points. It's to A Fzoned guy that I tell anything to.
Archgirl Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 Some of also just don't alter ourselves to attract a guy. It means nothing, it could be building up a funny rapport for either reason. You said it's funny- is it a bit flirty too? Does she show you more attention than others at work? These are probably better clues. 1
Author CARL45 Posted March 30, 2013 Author Posted March 30, 2013 No she wasn't flirty about it. She seems to see me as a friend which is fine because I'm not attached to her.
suladas Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 It's so tough to tell if a girl is flirting. Some will flirt with everyone and it means nothing to them. Others are just awful at it and you have no idea. But I would think that she is not flirting. 1
Cutiepie1976 Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 If she's giving graphic descriptions of her boyfriend, she most likely sees you as nothing more than a friend. Personally, and this is true for most women I know, when you like a guy, you make an effort to ensure he knows you're single (i.e. no boyfriend), available, and open/interested. Providing details about what she and her boyfriend do runs counter to all of this. 1
hazeleyes2013 Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 That could go either way! I know a girl who is the same way...but, she tells guys this stuff thinking that will get them to like her. Some women have no self-esteem and think the only way to get a man's attention is to talk about sex.
StanMusial Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 IME, girls have not mentioned there bfs until our third or fourth date. I have no idea why a girl would go through graphic detail of her sex life with a coworker. If a guy did this, he would be at risk of a sexual harassment charge most likely.
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