srivers89 Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 I'm trying to go through a full week of NC starting from last Sunday, I'm almost there! However I had to unfollow a mutual friend on instagram today because her and my ex were hanging out and they took pics. It's strange because it appears my ex has unblocked me on instagram but besides that the friend is more hers than mine. I really really have the urge to text my ex and I don't know what I want to say but I just want to, last time I got in touch with her it just made me madder and all I remember is her saying how I was holding her back from having fun pretty much. Let's not forget the serial cheating that went on during the four relationship with a mutual friend who is a female. Also this female friend she cheated on me with told me that she doesn't feel bad about it and some other stuff, part of me wants to curse this girl out as well but what good would it do? I'm just venting on here out of frustration because the few friends I do have seem to be tired of me complaining to them.
NewPerspective93 Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 Do not text your ex. See, you don't even know what you want to say to her, so why bother? If she went as far as saying something along the lines of you keeping her back, I say you drop all forms of contact. What's the point? You're better than that. Holding on to someone who has the audacity to say something that heartless to you will lead to no good. It seems selfish on her part because it's as if you're reminding her of what she did wrong, hence why she says you're keeping her from having fun. She seems to have issues, so don't stick around. Let her figure out what to do with them herself. She cheated multiple times??? I feel that you have the right to be mad, but don't let it consume you. I think you dodged a bullet. If she didn't even feel bad about cheating on you, I'd say she didn't care much about the relationship. What does that tell you about this person? Why would you want to keep contact with her after she did this? If anything, it shows her how you don't respect yourself because after what she did to you, you still feel the need to contact her. Kudos on realizing that cussing her out will do nothing for you. Feel free to keep venting here if you have the urge to contact her. Are you a woman or man? Sorry for asking, I was just curious. Regardless, all the strength to you. What goes around comes around. Cheers.
Author srivers89 Posted March 30, 2013 Author Posted March 30, 2013 Do not text your ex. See, you don't even know what you want to say to her, so why bother? If she went as far as saying something along the lines of you keeping her back, I say you drop all forms of contact. What's the point? You're better than that. Holding on to someone who has the audacity to say something that heartless to you will lead to no good. It seems selfish on her part because it's as if you're reminding her of what she did wrong, hence why she says you're keeping her from having fun. She seems to have issues, so don't stick around. Let her figure out what to do with them herself. She cheated multiple times??? I feel that you have the right to be mad, but don't let it consume you. I think you dodged a bullet. If she didn't even feel bad about cheating on you, I'd say she didn't care much about the relationship. What does that tell you about this person? Why would you want to keep contact with her after she did this? If anything, it shows her how you don't respect yourself because after what she did to you, you still feel the need to contact her. Kudos on realizing that cussing her out will do nothing for you. Feel free to keep venting here if you have the urge to contact her. Are you a woman or man? Sorry for asking, I was just curious. Regardless, all the strength to you. What goes around comes around. Cheers. Haha I'm a guy but yeah I just found out about the cheating with the female friend a few days ago and she did actually leave me for a different guy a few times why I constantly took her back idk just stupid decisions. I really don't want to contact her especially after being told "I hold her back" or "I'm boring and predictable" and "She's tired of the same routine". It's funny she says all those things and says she felt like this the past two years but willingly took money from me, let me buy her groceries, pick her up from work, and let her mom use my car to run her errands. Her mother is a very sweet woman btw so I have no ill will towards her but it's just still like wtf? I just really want to move on but I know there will be a day relatively soon where she will get in touch with me asking me something and I'll be forced to ball up and tell her no or just not reply. I know I deserve better but the good times I had with her still linger in my mind from time to time which makes this process painful.
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