252255 Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 Okay so me and my girlfriend been together for about 6 months but last 2 months have been tricky we broke up about a month ago and got back together just over a week ago (week of her birthday) we been great n that but up until wedesday shes been keeping on asking me to move in with her and we wer goin about seein a specialist about having a babey together yea may sound really soon but I said I thought her asking me to move in was a spare of the moment which I think it was. Now I never seen her yesterday everything seemed okay until I went for my late night stroll/jog and always pass hers I thought she was at the pub and didn't think nothing of it but on way back her lights wer on so thought id see her quick then carry on with my travels. I kept ringing she would not answer or reply to txts I thought this was strange when she finally answered she told me she was at her nans!!! which I found highly amusing as she lives alone and could hear someone walking in her house so I called her out on it and finally she gave in! saying it was one of her (girls mates) who in fact is a full on lesbo who she happened to be sein for the time we broke up!!. As she promised me she wasn't speaking to her anymore as she made me do the same thing to one of my Xs who stil has a thing for me , she would not let me come in kept telling me to go away just the way she spoke to me was outrageous In itself , wasn't much I could do this was early hours in the morning so now im just thinking everything in the book what happened eg. Telling me shed ring me the next day and all that which she did well she messages me to come get my things as I was in a foul mood and asked to come get them. when I seen her she said that lastnight I was so clingy which id say I did go over board I panicked kept ringing her was dying to kick the door down but kept my cool she told me today that it was infact her dad who was there but hes never liked her having friends there when hes there as he never visits much and me and him don't speak also wether I can beleave this or not I don't no. she promised me it was true but guess they don't mean much when ur trying get ur way outa something!!. We spoke and all that n her saying theres no trust with us and I should never have showed up at hers that late at night its clingy and looks desperate even tho I only wanted to see her for 2minutes kinda like a surprise then carry on with my travels! , so after all this now shes changed her mind completely about me and her saying she wants to be single and we can still be **** buddies eg and hearing her speak like this just gave me more reason to beleave that she had done the dirty on me and feels guilty about her actions and knows this is the only possible way out of it. I got my things to go and she turned around and goes so whats happening with us then I came back in and she said so wer not together anymore??. To go from moving in having a family a day before to this just doesn't make any sense what so ever I asked her if were still together just so I know and all shed say back is "ill message you later"! im to tired I wanna go to sleep then started to get really aggressive with the voice and me bein loving me tried calming her down saying how much I love her eg and she doesn't mean anything she says kinda made matters worse. I went to go and she wanted a kiss and said ill "message you after" so know im clueless to whats happening. I know shes goin out clubbing tomorrow and I aint sure of her plans tonight. I don't know how to go about all this and to all them people who say start meeting someone else I don't wanna hear it!.. Btw wer both 22 I want some genuine advice on this thankyou
Keenly Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 \ I don't know how to go about all this and to all them people who say start meeting someone else I don't wanna hear it!.. \ You are not looking for advice, you want people to tell you what you want to hear. Look man, here you have a girl of SIX MONTHS that is already trying to pressure you into moving in with her and having a baby, and she also potentially fooling around with a woman, if I read your story correctly You can either leave her, which you wont, or you can strap in and enjoy the roller coaster ride thats coming.
KatZee Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 (edited) I want some genuine advice on this thankyou You want some genuine advice? Go back to school. And curb all this nonsense about trying for a "babey." You're joking, right? The last thing either of you two should be doing is bringing an innocent life into the disaster written above. Edited March 29, 2013 by KatZee
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