all_cats_rgray Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 From what I understand is. If your a dumpee...Never break NC Never break NC, when the EX is in a relationship. Aka, your relationship is over because the EX is not going to break NC.
na49 Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 NC isn't a game. If contacting your ex won't hurt you, then go for it. If you can handle them telling you what you don't want to hear, then go for it. When the ex is in a relationship, I'd assume you can only drive them closer to the person they're with by reaching out to them. Especially if you're bringing up the past relationship and trying to guilt trip them into coming back to you. They're moving on, they put you in the past, so I doubt they want to hear that crap. your relationship isn't over because your ex isn't breaking NC. My ex broke NC and was telling me all of this nonsense about being friends and how she missed me/wanted to talk. My relationship is over because we aren't together right now. 2
Treasa Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 NC should become NCAMOADASWYOL. "No contact and move on and do awesome **** with your own life." Just doing NC by itself doesn't help a ton unless you also find what in your life makes you happy. Create and accomplish new or old goals, surround yourself with positivity, etc.
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