Why Do I struggle finding dates?? I'm looking for some casual fun, but no luck so far

[ErinLane87]

Hi,

 

My name's Erin and I'm new to this forum. I would love to know why I don't get any date offers from guys. I'm looking to just go out on casual dates and have some fun with a nice guy. I find life very boring single and not going out on dates. I think that I'm an easy going, nice girl but i think that people look at my pictures and mis-judge me. I am not a slut, I think I'm just scared of settling down and having committment, but I guess if I found the right person I would be able to have a relationship. I am just finding that noone seems to even give me a chance!

 

Please tell me honestly if you think I should change my pictures on my profile or that I'm attracting the wrong attention, as it would be great for some feedback...

 

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Thanks,

 

ErinLane87

[Roadkill007]

Hey, welcome to LS. It kind of feels like you're fishing, but I'll take this seriously nevertheless.

 

I'd think guys would be jumping all over you. How exactly do people not give a relationship with you a chance? Is this(dirtytagged) the only site you're looking for people on? How about IRL: what's the dating situation like? There's nothing inherently wrong with your profile, and I find it hard to believe you aren't getting any dates.

[The Tallest One]

If this is serious which I highly doubt, the fairly revealing photos and description do make you come across as promiscuous! You will only attrack one night stands with this profile!

[Tk123]

You definitely are attractive (if this is really you) no doubt about that, but you need to change the pictures on your profile. As mentioned by previous posters, you're only going to attract one night stands with the current pictures you're using.

[ltjg45]

I would date you in a heartbeat if that is truly you.

 

So please forgive me for my doubt that I find this hard to believe.

 

Even if it was, the only reason why I'm thinking like this is because you look like the kind of female that is already taken. I doubt very few males would think someone as sexy as you would be walking around single for a long period of time.

 

Not to mention you would attract players with your photos, which I can understand why commitment is not easy for you to accept. I would make those private and take pictures of you in more casual clothing.