FrenchBaguette Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 Hi everybody, First of all, i'm French, sorry in advance for my mistakes but i found this forum and it seems interesting and open minded not like French forums. 4 years ago i met a girl (sort of holidays), we was together for 1 month then we broke up (not friendly) because of distance (400km) No contact during 1 year After this year she contacts me (I was single she had a bf), i never forgot this girl and let's go again. New story during 2 months. She broke up with me, broke up with his bf. I told her i wish you misery bla bla bla she did the same. Everything a couple can say worse No contact for 2 years. 1 month ago she added me on facebook. I accepted this request directly. (My bad) 2Days later : Me : "??" She : " ??" Me : " You appears when we do not expect it" She " Its'like that. You was not obligated to accept, I would have understood " Me : "I was happy to have some news" She " Me too" Me " I have to go"...... 5 days later : Her birthday i made a cool message with some souvenirs, she seemed to be happy of this. The next day we spoke 30 minutes but i have to make conversation or she doesn't speak. Since it 15 days no news. I think I hate her, i was okay in my life, no gf,no problem. What she wants? only curiosity? To show me she is good in her life? Just to be friend (urgh) ? I'm definitely crazy. 20 messages and i fall down again. I feel that this story has never really started and never really finished. Hard to write all in English i hope this mean something
Lillygoose Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 I think thats a case of curiosity for her. You where together for a month, She just seems bored with her life. And is simply checking up on you. It doesn't sound like she wants to be friends, just she is being more nosey. Besides who adds you on facebook for you to be the one to first make contact with her. nosey nosey nosey!
Cutiepie1976 Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 I agree. It was likely a combination of curiosity, boredom, and if she's recently single to see whether you still liked her...not that she was interested in dating you again. She just wants to ascertain whether you might still be interested. There's no benefit to you. Unfriend her, ignore her, and continue on with your life.
PogoStick Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 Bonjour francophone! Américaine veut faire de nouveaux amis qui sont françaises. Please make more posts so we can speak privately.
Author FrenchBaguette Posted March 29, 2013 Author Posted March 29, 2013 Thank you for your answers, you are probably right but she really don't seems to be bored. I will see what happen and try to continue on in my life. I remember I told to myself 2 years ago " She is a real selfish person!" i'm not so good i guess but... I'm too curious too!! A real girly Hey Pogo " Américain**" That could make a big difference ahah.
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