tme0 Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 My boyfriend and I broke up this past weekend. I made an account on a dating site. This man messaged me and we started messaging back and forth. He is very nice and he gave me his number a few days ago and told me I could text him. I replied that I would. I haven't texted him. It's been 3 days now, and he sent me a message on the site, asking how my day was. My boyfriend and I got back together yesterday, which is why I never texted him. What do I do?? Do I say anything to him? If I should tell him something, what do I say?? He's really nice, and I feel bad..especially because I am the only one he is talking to (he only likes to talk to one woman at a time). So....what do I say to him? I wouldn't mind being friends with him, he's really nice, but I don't know if he's looking to make any new friends...
soccerrprp Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 Simple. Tell him thank you, but you've gotten back together with your ex and good luck.
SJC2008 Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 In today's world, before the actually break up or 5 minutes after a break up... Create / reactivate online profile. Grieving, healing, reflecting on why it didn't work out, getting over the Ex, wrapping up loose ends, getting over it, etc... Who has time for that? A former roommate of mine got dumped for cheating on his GF. She immediately was hooked up with somone else! Then she got dumped and called my roommate and said she'll give him another chance lol. They're living together now. I don't know how people have to be with someone so bad they can't be alone for a minute. Many people my age who have had the lack of dating I have would of offed themselves. Contrary to whay you think and said in my thread, I'm far from the can't be alone type.
curlygirl40 Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 Tell him the truth. That you're getting back together with an X. Tell him it was nice getting to know him and good luck. Then take your profile down if you haven't already! Way too soon IMO for you to be online anyway. If this happens again, give yourself some time.
Author tme0 Posted March 28, 2013 Author Posted March 28, 2013 I know it was too soon.. I feel horrible because he is so nice.
mtber75 Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 just tell him that you are "working" on getting back with the ex and need some time off from OLD...If he is such as nice guy he would appreciate your honesty!
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