TheFriend Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 So I thought all of you would get a laugh/fist clinch/ wanna punch a wall for me out of this story. I had finally...FINALLY!!! Lotsa majority of the sting about thinking about my ex. I was accepting and ready to move on when I wake up this morning to..... 7:10AM missed call" voice message " hey I need to talk to you I have been crying all morning call me before 9." ( I am sleeping) 8:40Am missed call voice mail. " hey I really need to talk to you, I guess I will try you later or something" My thoughts... Wtf!!! Is this what I have been hoping/ dreaming of for months?!? I call her at 9:30 Here is what she was crying about and wanting to talk to me about.... " hey.... I just wanted to tell you I know how you feel now.... I needed to come clean and get some things off my chest. I started seeing a guy the day after we broke up and fell in love with him immediately. He was a mirror image of me. We would do everything together and I would have said yes immediately if he proposed to me. Anyways.. He hurt me and now I know you you feel about me. I just wanted to give you closure. You can now let go of me because I will do anything to get him back..... I feel like i needed to tell you this because i have alot of praying to so that god can give me another chance with him and that I needed to get this out for that to happen." My jaw dropped and i was speechless ..... Can you drive a knife further in to anyone's heart then telling them this? Any feed back on guys?
MushyPeas Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 How absolutely tactless and pathetic of her! Really, wow. I think the only thing you can do is laugh in this situation at how ridiculous she has behaved and add it up as just another reason why you're so much better off without her! 3
Author TheFriend Posted March 28, 2013 Author Posted March 28, 2013 Thanks mushypeas! Haha it definitely fired me up. I have never been so pissed off. I sure as hell would never want to go back to her now knowing that I would be second choice. Karma got her i guess.... But wow am i still fired up thinking about this. 1
january2011 Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 Selfish. All about her. Total BS. Block/delete and NC. 3
destroyed4sho Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 wow. Sounds like she got all.superstitious and thought that God punished her for doing what she did to you. My take on it is that she apologized so that God can forgive her and give her man back. Ehh what a disrespectful selfish cunt. I am so sorry...but doesnt it feel good to know her ass got dumped by the guy she left u for?? I think this is totally something to laugh at! She is pathetic. Leave vengence up to God he Always takes care of it. 2
Author TheFriend Posted March 28, 2013 Author Posted March 28, 2013 Haha it is very strange how that works....I have just never heard of something like this happening. I am assuming this is not normal(to contact an ex and say that kind of thing) I feel like a caged animal. She is one of those kids at the zoo who comes up and shakes it to piss me off. 1
destroyed4sho Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 Haha it is very strange how that works....I have just never heard of something like this happening. I am assuming this is not normal(to contact an ex and say that kind of thing) I feel like a caged animal. She is one of those kids at the zoo who comes up and shakes it to piss me off. She didnt do it to piss you off. She could care less. She did it to clear her conscious so that God can bring her man back to her. Guess what tho? Too Late...he ain't coming back! I think you should go out anfdcelebrate...cuz what goes around comes around. lo
Author TheFriend Posted March 28, 2013 Author Posted March 28, 2013 Lol it's almost ALMOST sad. Because I know the pain she is going through now;)but at the same time... Some drinks are fed in store for tonight:) I guess as far as happy endings go on this site here is one eh?
Lillygoose Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 What a spinless bitch. Bet you're glad you're out of that
cavalier99 Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 This is a classic story! What you will rememeber years down the road is how hilarious it was. Inspite of the heart wrenching pain it produces now. Cav 1
na49 Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 Timeout. So she called you to tell you she fell in love with another guy? This guy hurt her BUT she loves him SOOOOOOO much that she wants him back. She thinks that confessing to you will bring her man back? This thread is exactly what I needed to see actually. Not that I'm happy to see your hurt. I'm not. but I dealt with something similar. My ex was texting and calling me telling me she wanted to talk to me and needed to talk to me 3 months ago. She never left a voice message, so I never figured out what she wanted to talk to me about. BUT I ignored her @ss and never called her back. Reading this thread, makes me realize just because they want to talk to you doesn't mean they want you back. If anything, they may want to tell you they don't want you back. I'm sorry your hurting bro, but you should block her and try focusing on you. I couldn't imagine how much it hurt to hear her tell you something like that. 2
KatZee Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 HAHAHAH! For real?! I would have laughed into the phone and been like "B.itch please! How big is your ego right now that you think I'm holding onto you and trying to get you back?!?! hahahahah!!!" *click* 2
todreaminblue Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 So I thought all of you would get a laugh/fist clinch/ wanna punch a wall for me out of this story. I had finally...FINALLY!!! Lotsa majority of the sting about thinking about my ex. I was accepting and ready to move on when I wake up this morning to..... 7:10AM missed call" voice message " hey I need to talk to you I have been crying all morning call me before 9." ( I am sleeping) 8:40Am missed call voice mail. " hey I really need to talk to you, I guess I will try you later or something" My thoughts... Wtf!!! Is this what I have been hoping/ dreaming of for months?!? I call her at 9:30 Here is what she was crying about and wanting to talk to me about.... " hey.... I just wanted to tell you I know how you feel now.... I needed to come clean and get some things off my chest. I started seeing a guy the day after we broke up and fell in love with him immediately. He was a mirror image of me. We would do everything together and I would have said yes immediately if he proposed to me. Anyways.. He hurt me and now I know you you feel about me. I just wanted to give you closure. You can now let go of me because I will do anything to get him back..... I feel like i needed to tell you this because i have alot of praying to so that god can give me another chance with him and that I needed to get this out for that to happen." My jaw dropped and i was speechless ..... Can you drive a knife further in to anyone's heart then telling them this? Any feed back on guys? that is a truly cruel thing to do....thoughtless and inappropriate,self centered and horrible...i feel for you........at least you can move on ....thats a positive.......deb
coralie Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 Wow...I have no words for how selfish and ridiculous she is. Not to mention the complete lack of consideration or even awareness for how tactless and inappropriate the whole thing is. ...I just wanted to give you closure. You can now let go of me... Seriously??? Just...wow. You are so much better off without this crazy person.
destroyed4sho Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 this is your exgirl tonight praying : " god, pls bring my man back into my life. Its 48 hrs since he dumped me. I have made amends for my sins and wicked ways this morning. I called my ex up and came clean ([underthought]...except for the cheating part) Anyway, he knows enough. Pls god bring my.man back..pls." LOL... 1
Author TheFriend Posted March 29, 2013 Author Posted March 29, 2013 Lol I appreciate all of the support on this forum. Lol it is unbelievable how effed up someone can be. Omg I feel like dodged the biggest bullet ever for the time being. Destroyed lol your comment is soo right, I am just waiting for the next text / call that eventually says " well... Apparently I didn't come clean enough I cheated so yeah now you know" then prayer time starts again lol!! unreal...unreal! 1
ThatJustHappened Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 One word comes to mind while reading this thread. That word is b*tch. High five TheFriend..you totally dodged a cannonball!
geegirl Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 I had to read it back a few times. Just when you think you've heard it all.
Author TheFriend Posted March 29, 2013 Author Posted March 29, 2013 Does anyone think this is normal in any way? Is this something anyone could forgive in the future if an ex came back?
Joaquin Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 Does anyone think this is normal in any way? Is this something anyone could forgive in the future if an ex came back? No op. This ^^^^^ is the most EFFED up thing ever!!!
destroyed4sho Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 I don't think she will come back so don't worry about it.
Author TheFriend Posted March 30, 2013 Author Posted March 30, 2013 I am by no means wanting nor do I think she will, but more putting the question out there to everyone if they would talk this kind of person back.
destroyed4sho Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 I wouldn't because she sounds like she is not capable of being empathetic. Very dangerous to be in a relationship with someone that lacks that quality. They can just discard you and not even think twice about it. Read this post from 2011 that I dug up: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/coping/275415-if-you-have-been-dumped-out-blue-read 1
Author TheFriend Posted March 30, 2013 Author Posted March 30, 2013 Good post. Thanks for that! Was very interesting to read. Way is your story by the way? Do you have a thread or what's going on?
js1967 Posted March 30, 2013 Posted March 30, 2013 really?????.....well,...be glad that with all the hurt, you are at your worst...not with her. wow wow wow. great story...i pray now i get a phone call like that.
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