Gf just broke up with me. Need as many thoughts possible.

March 28, 2013

Ok so this is my friend's account, I'm just using it.

My gf broke up with me and I've never heard her say such mean things. A few months ago I asked her to write me a resume and she did it, it was great! but when she sent it there were two typos on it, I didn't catch till I already sent them out. My last name was spelt wrong, a letter was left out and there was another small mistake. I didn't proof read it and I flipped out when I realized. I wasn't speaking to her and then she sent me a huge break up email.

I've been so awful to her, I call her names and disrespect her like dirty b****, b****, whore. I constantly criticize her. I tell her she's broke and I point out all her flaws. She's med student and she's so amazing anything I've asked her to do for me, she's done it but now I've lost her. When I was with her, I use to tell girls I was single and hangout and flirt with them. I never physically did anything with them but still cheating. Whenever she needed me I was never there. I recently lost my job and she's been applying to places for me lol with the messed up resume but still she's been here. She gave me 60 cash to do a certain application, she gave me 200 one time to pay my rent. She got into a car accident I never even called to ask her if she was ok, I went out with my friends. I don't do anything for her. I love so much, I lost my virginity to her. I don't know what to do.. I don't think she'll give me another chance this time. I never even took her out, I would just ask to come over to her place and hangout. It's not that I'm a jerk, I'm immature ..... she's 23 and I'm 19.

This time she really went nuts and she told me I was selfish and I only think of myself, she told me if I loved her I would show it and that she wants a relationship but she doesn't want to be in one with someone like me. Said that she doesn't want me in her life at all and that she doesn't want to even see me so I can pay her back. She called me out on my honesty and told me to go chew on glass and swallow it. She even said she hated me and she doesn't love me at all .. that I suck and that I'm dirty.

I'm at a lost. I don't know how I can get her back. This is the worst.

I'm going to paste some of the email she sent to me:

"Firstly, you should be writing your own damn resume and I should be proof reading. Give me a break, whos doing a whole resume for you. I not only wrote it but proof read it and clearly there was mistakes, I apologized. I'm really sorry about that, that's your responsibility though. It's YOUR resume, so be mature and proof read it yourself. Your sending stuff out you don't even know what's in there. Even if you wrote mine which you would never do, I would check that a million times. Don't try to put all the blame on me, your a jackass for that too. Clearly!

People get into relationships for the wrong reasons. Everyone wants to get things but its not about getting, it's about what you can give. You get what you put in. I love you a lot and I would do anything for you, within reason. I'm not your personal slave though, the way you act.. You demand things. You expect it like this is what Sally should be doing. I don't think you notice but I have a lot going on with my classes .. My mind is crazy right now. I take time out from that and my other responsibilities to help you with your various request because I care. Do you realize I don't ask you for a thing? Even when I ask you for little favors you don't come through. For months I've been looking for a job when I told you, you said, "yea so find one" lol. You don't know what's happening with me or what's going on in my life because everything is about what's going on with you. You're too self absorbed with whats happening in your life to even ask me. I guess you show that you care to people who are important to you, but not me.

We're so different, I'm simple and humble. Idk thats like an imperfection to you. You're completely opposite, you constantly look at what you have, what people have, money, cars ... You're so superficial. I don't care about that stuff, things aren't important to me and I'm not in a rush to get them I'm confident it'll come. You constantly criticize me, oh your broke, your this, your that ... F you, you come to me for everything. I'm perfectly happy for your info, I have what I need, I travel and have a good time when I need to .. I'm fine. I don't need someone telling me what my flaws are all the time. You don't even know what I like because when we spend time together we just have sex. We're such different people in different stages in our lives. You're young and so am I but I've done a lot and you're just starting. You have so much to figure out about yourself, you're only 19 and I'm your first, I'm not going to be the only girl you ever have sex with or be with .. That rarely happens. You're so young and I'm always going to expect more from you because I know what it feels like and you won't get it ... You'll be thinking wtf does she want from me. You would be better with the type of girls who hangout with you because honestly you guys are on the same level, you can grow together. They're easy to figure out because you have a lot in common with them not with me I'm different."

March 28, 2013

Sounds like you are a young little twat

March 28, 2013

Sounds like you are a young little twat

I really love her, I'm just immature

March 28, 2013

I really love her, I'm just immature

Ya think?

I'm 20 and would never do any of that **** you said you did to anyone. Let a good guy be with her, not your sorry ass.

March 28, 2013

Ya think?

I'm 20 and would never do any of that **** you said you did to anyone. Let a good guy be with her, not your sorry ass.

Wow, harsh

March 28, 2013

I've been so awful to her, I call her names and disrespect her like dirty b****, b****, whore. I constantly criticize her. I tell her she's broke and I point out all her flaws. When I was with her, I use to tell girls I was single and hangout and flirt with them. Whenever she needed me I was never there. She got into a car accident I never even called to ask her if she was ok, I went out with my friends. I don't do anything for her. I never even took her out, I would just ask to come over to her place and hangout.

I'm not your personal slave though, the way you act.. You demand things. You expect it like this is what Sally should be doing. Do you realize I don't ask you for a thing? Even when I ask you for little favors you don't come through. For months I've been looking for a job when I told you, you said, "yea so find one" lol. You don't know what's happening with me or what's going on in my life because everything is about what's going on with you. You're too self absorbed with whats happening in your life to even ask me.

You constantly criticize me, oh your broke, your this, your that ... F you, you come to me for everything. I'm perfectly happy for your info, I have what I need, I travel and have a good time when I need to .. I'm fine. I don't need someone telling me what my flaws are all the time.

You're a scumbag and she knows it. Don't bother her again and grow up.

March 28, 2013

I really love her, I'm just immature

Your idea of love is f*cked up.

I'm 18 and I think you're a clown.

March 29, 2013

What the heck man!

Or shall we say boy?

If you so called ''love'' and ''care'' about her.

Do her the world of good, and leave her be.

and then concentrate on not being a knob!

March 29, 2013

What the heck man!
Or shall we say boy?

If you so called ''love'' and ''care'' about her.

Do her the world of good, and leave her be.

and then concentrate on not being a knob!

I can't believe everyone is saying leave her alone, I love her .....I want to be with her I just don't know how to get her back

March 29, 2013

Sounds like you deserved what you got. Let her find someone who will actually treat her right! in the meantime you've got some serious growing up to do.

March 29, 2013

If she has any self respect, you will NEVER get her back.

You sound awful. You used her for whatever she would give you but did nothing in return.

You haven't changed. You "love" her but you call her a bitch and a whore?! You are really nasty, just leave her alone and work on yourself.

March 29, 2013

Listen its one of those cases where you have to be mean, for it to get through.

There is a saying, but I cant pin point it.

You have to put yourself in her shoes, she has dealt with alot from you. The calling her name (IS BULLYING) She gave you her heart on a plate, and you just threw it in the trash. You disrespected her, went off with other girls.

now, to even do that says you couldn't of loved her.

You do not do that to a girl you supposedly LOVE?

If there was a tiny bit of madness in that girl wanting to get back with you. I would say give it a year.

And in that time make some drastic changes in your life, because right now you're so low, and please for her sake do not drag her down with you,. You need to learn to respect women, to not take advantage of anything a future partner does for you, to not treat them as a walking ATM machine. You have years of growing up to you.

The maybe, Maybe in couple years time when you are a changed man there might be a chance.

but even then, if she has a clever bone in her body...

If she is worth it. you will do it? no?

March 29, 2013

Listen its one of those cases where you have to be mean, for it to get through.

There is a saying, but I cant pin point it.

You have to put yourself in her shoes, she has dealt with alot from you. The calling her name (IS BULLYING) She gave you her heart on a plate, and you just threw it in the trash. You disrespected her, went off with other girls.

now, to even do that says you couldn't of loved her.

You do not do that to a girl you supposedly LOVE?

If there was a tiny bit of madness in that girl wanting to get back with you. I would say give it a year.

And in that time make some drastic changes in your life, because right now you're so low, and please for her sake do not drag her down with you,. You need to learn to respect women, to not take advantage of anything a future partner does for you, to not treat them as a walking ATM machine. You have years of growing up to you.

The maybe, Maybe in couple years time when you are a changed man there might be a chance.

but even then, if she has a clever bone in her body...

If she is worth it. you will do it? no?

I've changed a lot for her since she first knew me, I can do some more changing but in a few years time, who knows? She maybe with someone else ... and then I won't have a chance at all.

I've never heard her say she hates me.. ever. We've had so many arguments and she never says that. She said she didn't love me at all ... and she doesn't ever want me sharing a thing in her life.

March 29, 2013

Sorry dude. You losted the girl. She was a saint to put up with all the stuff you gave her. Sure, you want her back....but here's the rub. She doesn't want to come back. And all its going to take is her going out on one date with some other guy to solidify that she made the right choice.

You need to chalk this up to lessons learned. You learned on how NOT to treat a girl.

March 29, 2013

somethig is wrong with your post....dont buy it.

March 29, 2013

Sorry dude. You losted the girl. She was a saint to put up with all the stuff you gave her. Sure, you want her back....but here's the rub. She doesn't want to come back. And all its going to take is her going out on one date with some other guy to solidify that she made the right choice.

You need to chalk this up to lessons learned. You learned on how NOT to treat a girl.

It's killing me to hear that bro .. I hate to even think about her being with someone else

March 29, 2013

ok so I looked at your profile.

Are you the girl in the story writing this as if you are your ex???!

March 29, 2013

ok so I looked at your profile.

Are you the girl in the story writing this as if you are your ex???!

What are you saying bro .... I said in my post this isn't my account, its a friend of mines ..... I don't want to make one and I wanted peoples opinions on my situation other that my own. People who don't know me.

OK loveshack police lol arrest me this isn't my account wtf

March 29, 2013

somethig is wrong with your post....dont buy it.

Not to be rude but that's not really the issue though ...i've posted my question thats the issue

March 29, 2013

Your story is ridiculous. I don't believe it's real. You probably are bored or something and just want a reaction...and mostly attention. Dumb.

March 30, 2013

Thank you to everyone who answered to my post .... I appreciate it and I have been thinking about your responses to those people saying my story is a fake, who has time to be posting fake things online, REALLY?

March 30, 2013

Thank you to everyone who answered to my post .... I appreciate it and I have been thinking about your responses to those people saying my story is a fake, who has time to be posting fake things online, REALLY?

You're aware that we can see your entire posting history, right? Where you have a series of posts as the girlfriend in this relationship?

March 31, 2013

Ok so this is my friend's account, I'm just using it.

My gf broke up with me and I've never heard her say such mean things. A few months ago I asked her to write me a resume and she did it, it was great! but when she sent it there were two typos on it, I didn't catch till I already sent them out. My last name was spelt wrong, a letter was left out and there was another small mistake. I didn't proof read it and I flipped out when I realized. I wasn't speaking to her and then she sent me a huge break up email.

I've been so awful to her, I call her names and disrespect her like dirty b****, b****, whore. I constantly criticize her. I tell her she's broke and I point out all her flaws. She's med student and she's so amazing anything I've asked her to do for me, she's done it but now I've lost her. When I was with her, I use to tell girls I was single and hangout and flirt with them. I never physically did anything with them but still cheating. Whenever she needed me I was never there. I recently lost my job and she's been applying to places for me lol with the messed up resume but still she's been here. She gave me 60 cash to do a certain application, she gave me 200 one time to pay my rent. She got into a car accident I never even called to ask her if she was ok, I went out with my friends. I don't do anything for her. I love so much, I lost my virginity to her. I don't know what to do.. I don't think she'll give me another chance this time. I never even took her out, I would just ask to come over to her place and hangout. It's not that I'm a jerk, I'm immature ..... she's 23 and I'm 19.

This time she really went nuts and she told me I was selfish and I only think of myself, she told me if I loved her I would show it and that she wants a relationship but she doesn't want to be in one with someone like me. Said that she doesn't want me in her life at all and that she doesn't want to even see me so I can pay her back. She called me out on my honesty and told me to go chew on glass and swallow it. She even said she hated me and she doesn't love me at all .. that I suck and that I'm dirty.

I'm at a lost. I don't know how I can get her back. This is the worst.

I'm going to paste some of the email she sent to me:

"Firstly, you should be writing your own damn resume and I should be proof reading. Give me a break, whos doing a whole resume for you. I not only wrote it but proof read it and clearly there was mistakes, I apologized. I'm really sorry about that, that's your responsibility though. It's YOUR resume, so be mature and proof read it yourself. Your sending stuff out you don't even know what's in there. Even if you wrote mine which you would never do, I would check that a million times. Don't try to put all the blame on me, your a jackass for that too. Clearly!

People get into relationships for the wrong reasons. Everyone wants to get things but its not about getting, it's about what you can give. You get what you put in. I love you a lot and I would do anything for you, within reason. I'm not your personal slave though, the way you act.. You demand things. You expect it like this is what Sally should be doing. I don't think you notice but I have a lot going on with my classes .. My mind is crazy right now. I take time out from that and my other responsibilities to help you with your various request because I care. Do you realize I don't ask you for a thing? Even when I ask you for little favors you don't come through. For months I've been looking for a job when I told you, you said, "yea so find one" lol. You don't know what's happening with me or what's going on in my life because everything is about what's going on with you. You're too self absorbed with whats happening in your life to even ask me. I guess you show that you care to people who are important to you, but not me.

We're so different, I'm simple and humble. Idk thats like an imperfection to you. You're completely opposite, you constantly look at what you have, what people have, money, cars ... You're so superficial. I don't care about that stuff, things aren't important to me and I'm not in a rush to get them I'm confident it'll come. You constantly criticize me, oh your broke, your this, your that ... F you, you come to me for everything. I'm perfectly happy for your info, I have what I need, I travel and have a good time when I need to .. I'm fine. I don't need someone telling me what my flaws are all the time. You don't even know what I like because when we spend time together we just have sex. We're such different people in different stages in our lives. You're young and so am I but I've done a lot and you're just starting. You have so much to figure out about yourself, you're only 19 and I'm your first, I'm not going to be the only girl you ever have sex with or be with .. That rarely happens. You're so young and I'm always going to expect more from you because I know what it feels like and you won't get it ... You'll be thinking wtf does she want from me. You would be better with the type of girls who hangout with you because honestly you guys are on the same level, you can grow together. They're easy to figure out because you have a lot in common with them not with me I'm different."

Your friend's account? A lot of "your friend's account" posts tallies with this one. Except that your friend is actually you and you are the girl. You're just here to hear people say you have made the right decision in breaking up with him. Well, considering that you go through so much trouble to pretend to be the guy posting here, I'd say he dodged a bullet man. You sound like a psychotic ex-girlfriend. You clearly have issues.

March 31, 2013

your ex gf sounds cool. u dont..

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