bjw Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 Hi I would welcome some advice. My friend and I had some sort of conflict. Actually I am not completely sure what the conflict is as she has not been willing to talk to me about it. It happened two weeks ago. I wanted to talk to her about it but she said she was unwilling to talk. She did undertake to talk to me this week but I have not heard from her. So my question is should I contact her and ask her when she is planning to talk to me? Its really eating me up not knowing what is going on with our friendship. Thanks
whichwayisup Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 How have you two been friends? Its really eating me up not knowing what is going on with our friendship. Tell your friend this and let her know that you care and when she's ready to talk, to please call you.
Author bjw Posted April 6, 2013 Author Posted April 6, 2013 Thanks. Not sure where this is going. She wants me to give her some space. I kind of feel like I am being manipulated but not really sure what I can do. This weekend we said me might do something. Its lunchtime Sunday now and I haven't heard from her. I hoped that I would at least hear from her whether or not she was wanting to do something. Its starting to feel like this friendship runs one way.
The Outlaw Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 As much as it sucks, if this is the way she wants to play, you're better off ending the friendship. Many people will sometimes take advantage of a friendship and only 'maintain' one if it benefits THEM. I've been in those shoes and I cut her out of my life because she was for a fact, using me to help her get over a hump in her life and used the guise of friendship as a front. Friendship is a two-way street, and not a one-way. And it should be taken advantage of because good friends are hard to come by. I'd give her a little more time, and after that, game over.
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