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Do guys like it when a girl pretends to fancy their mates?


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Currently seeing a guy casually - first time I met him, I didn't pay him much attention and thought his friend was good looking. (I wasn't attracted to his friend, but he is a good looking guy).

 

Next time we're out for a mates birthday and the guy i'm seeing and I hook up after he pesters me all night ;)

 

We've been keeping it casual and I think he likes me but he's hard to figure out. I was winding him up about me fancying his friend (I don't really).

 

I was surprised because he seemed to get quite worked up over it, saying he wasn't that good looking and that he could be a bit of a "knob". He seemed to be pretty jealous, which surprised me, so I just laughed it off and told him I wasn't attracted to his friend really and was only winding him up.

 

Do guys find it annoying when girls do this? Should I keep poking fun of him and make jokes about how ive had to settle for him instead of his mate, as long as he knows i'm kidding? I make fun of him over lots of other things and he seems to find it funny generally!

 

I'm not sure about other guys, but I probably would. I like girls to be straight with me, because I'm straight with them, and I don't like being 'toyed' with (hope that doesn't sound mean). I'm all for a laugh and a joke :laugh: but if you like this guy, I think you should tell him :)

 

I suppose you never really know if someone will be around for the long term OR the short term. (Well, I suppose some people are easier to tell if it isn't going to work out?)

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Well, I don't like what you did with the teasing, but your bf seems to have issue, I would be more careful and alert in the future!

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