LadyDesiire Posted September 12, 2004 Posted September 12, 2004 i'm feelin this guy, and apparently he's feelin me to [or so he told a mutual friend of ours]. we've been kickin it hard the past month.. and he's always very affectionate with me. but it took him a good while before he actually kissed me.. he has no problem kissing me on the cheek, neck, back, head, forehead, etc.. like little pecks.. but we've actually only had ONE real kiss. he's introduced me to his friends, his parents, and his brother with whom he's very close to. but when we go out together to do stuff, usually some of his friends will come along. and when we do go out alone together to eat or watch a movie or do "date" stuff, we usually pay for ourselves. he doesn't offer to pay for me. so that gives me in the impression that we're "just friends".. but then he'll go give me pecks, cuddle with me, introduce me to his family and friends, and i even heard him refer to me as his girl to some of his friends. and then he'll tell me he'll call me at a certain time and usually he's pretty good on his word, but other times he won't call. for example, the other night, he called me and told me he'd call me back when he got home. an hour passed and no phone call, so i called him back.. he told me he was still at the same place he was at when he called me, and asked if i wanted him to call me back when he got home. i said, sure.. and he said he would. he didn't call me that night.. but i didn't mind, because it was late anyway. but i was thinking he'd at least call me the next morning or something.. but no. it's night time and still no phone call from him. is he just playing games with me? or is he really interested? another thing that makes me not take things too seriously.. he just got out of a long-term relationship in the beginning of this year because his girlfriend had cheated on him. according to our mutual friend, a week before we met, he was still trippin off his ex because he wanted to be with her.. but about 2 weeks after he met me, our mutual friend told me that he had told her that he was getting better about his ex, and he's getting over her. he didn't say what helped him feel better about his situation with his ex.. but i'm pretty sure i was part of the reason. i know how rebounds go, so i'm not expecting that he's gonna wanna jump into another relationship or anything. but still, why would he tell our mutual friend he really likes me and has fun with me? i'm not pressuring him into anything.. i don't act like we're a couple or anything.. i try to keep things light between us so he doesn't feel like he needs to pretend that we're gonna be in a relationship [therefore forcing a rebound].. i'm just confused, cuz i'm really starting to like him.
mighty bop Posted September 13, 2004 Posted September 13, 2004 The reason why he is showing you off to everyone and whatnot is because he wants people to think he is over his ex. He might not even like you at all. He could just playing the "See I am with another girl already so I'm over my ex" game. Don't take this guy seriously at all unless he gives you sure signs. Don't call him. If he does call you, don't suggest anything. Let him. If he does, say something like you don't have any money. Or say something like "Are you paying?" If it's dinner, then at least you can get the tip if he pays. But bottom line is, a kiss on the lips means a lot. Not calling when he said he was gonna call means a lot. Don't take him seriously. Or you might get played.... Chris
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