Video Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 Have any of you guys/girls ever been afraid at some point that you think your girlfriend/boyfriend might be doing something behind your back simply because all you hear nowadays is this person cheated on this person, and this person did this to that person. It seems so common nowadays. You hear things like "I never thought she would cheat on me. I didnt think she was like that and then i caught her sleeping with some guy" It sucks but sometimes i cant help but think I wonder if my fiance/wife would ever do that to me? I just keep telling myself, there had to be a reason for it. That guy musta messed up to make her want to do that. I mean if my woman respects me and loves me...why would she do that unless shes just pure evil? As long as im good to her and give her a reason to fear losing me...ill be fine.
melodymatters Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 Unfortunately, this site, that I've been on forever and love dearly is my main nemesis when it comes to worries like that !!! As strong as your relationship is, it IS difficult to read soooooooooo many posts where people say " I thought everything was terrific and out of the blue, he/she said they love me but aren't IN love with me anymore ." .... and not ever wonder if that could happen to you too !?! You said you tell your self the other person must of messed up, I tell myself I'm far too intuitive to not pick up on cue's if he was feeling that way. Whatever works, eh ? No reason to freak on a perfectly good and innocent partner just because you READ stuff, or saw cheaters on TV. That would be ridiculous ! I guess we ALL have to accept that our partners could at one time stop loving us, or even die ( that happened to me 4 yrs ago), and that all we can do is trust that this is OUR life and OUR relationship, that it follows no other pattern, and we can only control being good partners ourselves . Hope for the best, prepare for the worst, and enjoy every day that you have love in your life. Best I can do Video, good luck and welcome to Love Shack !
Treasa Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 Have any of you guys/girls ever been afraid at some point that you think your girlfriend/boyfriend might be doing something behind your back simply because all you hear nowadays is this person cheated on this person, and this person did this to that person. It seems so common nowadays. You hear things like "I never thought she would cheat on me. I didnt think she was like that and then i caught her sleeping with some guy" It sucks but sometimes i cant help but think I wonder if my fiance/wife would ever do that to me? I just keep telling myself, there had to be a reason for it. That guy musta messed up to make her want to do that. I mean if my woman respects me and loves me...why would she do that unless shes just pure evil? As long as im good to her and give her a reason to fear losing me...ill be fine. I don't really worry about those things anymore. Honestly, I've gotten to a weird yet really cool point where, if someone cheated on me, they'd be tossed out and I'd be fine. I am so truly, honestly happy with myself and my life that I don't feel like I need someone. I have my family, and they aren't ever going to cheat on me, and I have my friends, and I have myself. The rest just falls by the wayside. As long as I have myself, I don't need some idiot who cheated on me. My ONLY fear is that I would get an STD, but then, I'm very careful.
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