Mint Sauce Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 I had this discussion with my gf yesterday, as I feel that it would be nice to find something we are both enthousiastic/passionate about. She doesn't need that. In her opinion, it's important to make time for each other, to do stuff together, but not to the extent of really a shared passion, other than raising a family. What do you think? Do you have one? Do you need one?
Eternal Sunshine Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 Nah, don't over complicate things. My parents have none and have been married for 30+ years.
iris219 Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 A shared passion could help solidify a relationship and would be nice, but it's not essential. You should have things you both enjoy doing together (other than having sex!). As long as you have something simple, like you both enjoy foreign films or trying new foods, you'll be fine. It's also helpful if you enjoy something the other is passionate about. My BF is passionate about boating. I'm not passionate about it, but I like going out on the boat with him.
Els Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 Yeah, we do have a few, in fact. It's great and certainly helps, but I don't think it's necessary, plenty of couples have had happy Rs without it. That being said I don't think there's any HARM in looking for a shared hobby to have together, though - if nothing else, the experience will give you both some quality bonding time.
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