atinyfish Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 (edited) I broke up with my gf 7 months ago for the reason she cheated & when I beg her not to she dumped me & even failed with another dude, because he doesn't like her. the reason I begged was, I was acting stupid on her, and I seemed to don't care about her at all until it was too late I admitted. I texted her from september until february, in a total of 3-4 times, the first time I texted she seemed abit angry, and sometime emotionless ( I was certain she stilled like me), and each time I texted her, she seems more friendlier. She always post sometime about, being sad in love, and about sin on her facebook. During this time, she really looks like she is really nervous when I am there, and try to hide from me, like sitting some where far from me where she could turn her back. and the last time i texted her was february, on msn I asked her of where to buy a doll, which this is the type of doll she likes, she replied in quite a happy feeling way and even changed her display picture and her name on msn, she put a ":)" beside her display name. Ofcourse, I didn't buy it for her, after that I stopped texting her really because I don't feel like doing that anymore. Right now she seemed really mean to me, sometimes swearing when I am near, and trying her full efforts to don't a group work with me. Also it seemed she is having a relationship with another dude. at this point I felt nothing anymore because I know her habits, which is liking many dudes at the sametime. I consider this guy is more like a rebound, or at most inflatuation, I don't think their relationship will last very long, because they seemed to be so close, and know each other very well in a short period of time. why? 1st she seemed to flirt alot with him when I am able to see it. 2nd she wrote his name on her display status on msn (why would someone do that?). Even now, I am still seeing that she is watching me, sometimes I looked at the mirror, and saw her looking at me. she seemed to know when I am there, or where I am, cause sometimes I saw her looking at me. Another sign is that, 1st, when her friend talk to me, her friend look at her 2nd, her bag once was putted beside mine, I assumed she saw my bag and still put it beside mine, however only once. 3rd, I tried walking across her with her new dude, with another girl with me 1-1 to buy something, that dude with my ex, joked about me being a couple with her, which my ex was silenced, and looked nervous So I tried testing once, I put my bag beside the one who's in a relationship with her once, I knew she was going to put her bag beside him, but then she saw my bag so she lay her bag somewhere far from his, and mine. now she seems like she's pretending to be not nervous in my presence, but still wouldn't talk to me, only look at me a bit when she thinks I don't see her. I think that the thing that is preventing her to talk to me is her pride, as a dumper. ,I am quite certain that I am still having an impact on her, as a second place, and I am certain, that the other dude she likes flirting with is third place. before we both can't look at each other's face obliviously, right now, I can but she can't, bet she's still shy. However I don't feel like doing things like getting back with her, because I also have my pride that I won't talk to her, if she won't talk to me. Can someone please help me evaluate the situation, and the action here. Edited March 28, 2013 by atinyfish
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