Lonely Ronin Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 I don't know how I would meet women who are in any of those professions, I doubt that I come into contact with many of them from day to day, honestly, even if I was to go out. For me, I work with these women. I might be a software developer, but i don't spend my entire day sitting in front of a computer. I go to meetings and interact with people from other departments. I'm assuming your in college, after you leave and get a job your going to start interacting with more and more women like this.
fortyninethousand322 Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 I'm an early 30's software developer, and I wear shoes like this with jeans to work daily. I could see that. But would you wear them for a Sunday morning jaunt to the grocery store?
Lonely Ronin Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 I could see that. But would you wear them for a Sunday morning jaunt to the grocery store? Yep, about the only time I don't wear them is if it's raining or snowing, in that case I fall back to sketchers. The only time I wear sneakers anymore is when I'm running, at the gym, or doing yard work.
charlietheginger Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 Im popping tags... If a women dont like my clothes... **** um
tbf Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 Lonely Ronin has pretty good taste in shoes, all at reasonable prices. Pragmatic for his needs. If you're a low maintenance guy, it's probably best to go after low maintenance women. Like draws like. 2
kaylan Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 I am wondering, I hear some women use some kind of litmus test of their own to figure out or judge a man. Some have said they like to look at the kind of shoes they wear. Is this an overly fashion conscious woman or a gold digger red flag? As someone into fashion, Id say both men and women take notice of one anothers shoes. And it can give a slight idea of what a person is into. Really depends though. I dont think it reads gold-digger at all. Im a bit of a sneaker head myself, and I definitely love a good pair of boots or dress shoes as well. That being said, if a girl is wearing some really nice and/or unique shoes, I will take notice and comment. I definitely like a girl who knows her street wear, as well as has some interest in more dressy stuff. My fave shoes are Nike SB Dunks, Nike Air Max 1s, my all white leather hi Chuck Taylors, , Palladium baggy boots, and Onitsuka Tiger Ultimate 81s. Oh, and Jack Purcells get some love too. So as you see, I do dig shoes myself...and Im trying to branch more into dressy shoes like wingtips. Much of my shoe love right now is sneakers and boots.I shop at thrift stores almost exclusively. I put together <$10 outfits out of designer clothes (sometimes including the shoes) I get compliments on my shoes or outfits all the time from women at work. As for the shoes specifically, I wear leather soled shoes. Bostonian & Florsheim for example (not terribly expensive new) but I have some older European made shoes also & i've even found a pair of Allen Edmunds. most I bought for $7 or less & all look brand freaking new after I clean, polish & shine them. So if a woman is looking at my clothes to determine if I have enough money to "treat her right" she dun goofing. I dress the way I dress because I like to look professional & good at work without going broke. I personally don't care about who makes the clothes but I have to admit, certain brands are just made better than the stuff you buy at walmart or kohls. Also I like the way my hard soles clap on the ground when I walk. This is great too. Some thrift shops have some great deals on good clothing and shoes. Dont forget places like Marshalls either. My friends have made really good finds on more expensive jeans there.
kaylan Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 (edited) Fashion is fashion. If she's in a dress with heels and he shows up in his worn-in comfy sneakers, she probably will get turned off. I'm still astounded when I see males who do not own a suit or any nice clothes. Just loads of jeans, sneakers, t-shirts, athletic wear, and a few polo shirts. Not good. The right combo of a white tee, fresh jeans with the right wash color, and cool sneakers, can make for a very great looking, yet casual outfit. I always tend to get compliments from men and women alike on the sneakers or boots I wear, because they are unique to what other people wear. Or my shoes just grab attention, yet arent too in your face. The right pair of blue jeans with a crisp white tee, compliments the shoes. Plus my dark skin tone creates a good contrast with light colored tops. However, on a date with a dressy girl, I would wear a white button down, sleeves rolled up, and raw denim blue jeans with my leather Jack Purcells badmitton shoes. Edited March 28, 2013 by kaylan
ScreamingTrees Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 Lonely Ronin has pretty good taste in shoes, all at reasonable prices. Pragmatic for his needs. If you're a low maintenance guy, it's probably best to go after low maintenance women. Like draws like. Yes, I'd agree, so if you're an otherwise attractive individual and are not high maintenance, I'd say that's a plus. You don't have to constantly bring your A-game for your partner to be attracted to you. 2
kaylan Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 (edited) It's common fashion knowledge that shoes are the most important part of your ensemble. Now that doesn't mean you have to wear Salvatore Ferragamo but it just means don't wear some beat up old raggedy sneakers or something stupid like brown shoes, black shirt, etc. This. More than enough guys are into fashion nowadays, that if you arent yourself, youre playing way behind the rest of the field. Even beat up clothing and shoe ensembles have become a sort of fashion wear people put together outfits with thought.I like shoes probably as much as a woman who is on the lower end of shoe collecting. There's like 5 pairs I frequently change between depending on the rest of what I'm wearing. Not because of this myth, just because shoes are neat. Beyond having a bit of an odd-ball sense of style, shoes and hair are like a necessity upon leaving the house. Strangely enough, I can recall a few times I've been complimented by women on my shoes. As a whole though, I don't think there's many who will judge a man entirely based on shoes, if you dress poorly overall that may be another story however. Not for all, but for some. Youd be amazing at the amount of guys out there who are VERY into shoes. I started to get into shoes for a little bit over the last few months. Went from 4 to 15 pairs of shoes very quickly. Half of which sit in boxes and havent really been worn yet. I know guys though who are legit shoe fiends. One dude has like 70 pairs of shoes. Mostly sneakers, but some dressy shoes and boots too. I dont have the money for that.The Zuckerberg style is pretty much how I dress, except for the shoes. I'd either go with solid black sneakers or hiking boots. I don't find that unacceptable unless you're going someplace nice for dinner or someplace fancy. If you're going out for a day at a museum or to a movie, Zuck doesn't look all that bad. The heels kind of throw things off with the women. They're dressed fairly nicely though. Dude, you never know whos going to see you. I dress to impress even when dressing down. I have dress down outfits that are plain but clearly make me look better than a lot of guys because I know how to shop for the right jeans, and I have good shoe taste. Hell, I go to the gym looking good because I have unique and eye catching running shoes and my gym outfit complements my shoes and body. Hell, when girls at the gym mention your shoes being cool as you talk to them, then youre doing something right. And when the guy are walmart tells you "fresh kicks" because you have nice hi tops on, thats pretty cool as well. Then again, that guy is like me...as I go out of my way to tell people they have really awesome sneakers or shoes if I notice them (male or female.) Yes sometimes I dress super duper bummy to go out, but thats only if Im jetting to the gas station or pharmacy for like 5 minutes. Edited March 28, 2013 by kaylan
Krieger Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 I have 30+ pairs of shoes and counting I just get board wearing he same pair every day .:laugh: 1
kaylan Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 1 more thing. While I love a girl who can look great in a plain tee shirt, jeans, and basic shoes. It feels even awesomer when she looks great in an even better outfit. A girl who knows how to make casual, dressy, and professional all look good...is a girl youll always feel super great having on your arm. I know Im not the only guy who feels a sense on pride when his lady knows how to dress up and dress down, and can make him think "*sigh*....that my babe".
Mr_Flay Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 I can't imagine shoes being the most important component of one's style, since they're not the most conspicuous part of what one wears. It's difficult to discern them from afar (especially if their colour blends with the ground) and from up close, unless you specifically look down. I should think the most visible things are the shirt from a medium distance, and the hairstyle and facial hair from a short distance. Yes, I'm guilty of judging girls too when it comes to shoes. If she wears high heels or overly fashionable boots, I'll think she's a party girl or a socialite. Low shoes or sneakers indicate to me a girl-next-door or a sporty, casual type, which I prefer.
phineas Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 shoes like these go very well with jeans. http://www.dsw.com/shoe/stacy+adams+halford+slip-on?prodId=271025&category=dsw12cat1970004&activeCats=cat20192,dsw12cat1970004 http://www.dsw.com/shoe/stacy+adams+danton+slip-on?prodId=166068&category=dsw12cat1970004&activeCats=cat20192,dsw12cat1970004 http://www.dsw.com/shoe/sandro+moscoloni+arthur+slip-on?prodId=105611&category=dsw12cat1970004&activeCats=cat20192,dsw12cat1970004 http://www.dsw.com/shoe/rockport+men%27s+aachen+slip-on?prodId=252885&activeCats=cat20192,dsw12cat1970004 http://www.dsw.com/shoe/mike+konos+leather+penny+loafer?prodId=258469&activeCats=cat20192,dsw12cat1970004 Where da black? Alfani Shoes, Proud Bike Toe Oxfords - Mens Alfani - Macy's
SJC2008 Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 Well if you COULD care less, then there is still plenty less to care... Sorry to nitpick, but that line is just WAY too nonsensical not to. Hell, I am not even a native speaker, but that just makes my ears bleed. Well as a "native" speaker, saying you COULD care less when it's supposed to be COULDN'T is VERY common and MOST people say the latter. I used to until I learned it was wrong. Thanks for the english lesson!
Lonely Ronin Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 The right combo of a white tee, fresh jeans with the right wash color, and cool sneakers, can make for a very great looking, yet casual outfit. True., as long as the style matches your persona. Deep shows that right here. http://www.forcebeyondcapacity.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/Johnny-Depp-Look-1.jpg I know Im not the only guy who feels a sense on pride when his lady knows how to dress up and dress down, and can make him think "*sigh*....that my babe". it's even better when you pick her up and the first thing out of her mouth, "is damn you look good". Where da black? glossy doesn't work with my style or personality. these are more me. RJ Colt Ethyn Black - Zappos.com Free Shipping BOTH Ways
SteveC80 Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 I love these gucci loafers Gucci cadet blue suede horsebit strapped loafers | BLUEFLY up to 70% off designer brands
ltjg45 Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 I forgot to mention THE most important part about your wardrobe. A good tailor. Every man needs one. Every. I don't even have the first clue as to where I can find one. And when I do, how costly it would be to acquire his/her services. Hell, I wouldn't even know what a tailor does to this day if I didn't play WoW and played a Priest/Mage/Warlock as much as I have. Just goes to show how pitiful the U.S. education system really is.
ltjg45 Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 shoes like these go very well with jeans. http://www.dsw.com/shoe/stacy+adams+halford+slip-on?prodId=271025&category=dsw12cat1970004&activeCats=cat20192,dsw12cat1970004 http://www.dsw.com/shoe/stacy+adams+danton+slip-on?prodId=166068&category=dsw12cat1970004&activeCats=cat20192,dsw12cat1970004 http://www.dsw.com/shoe/sandro+moscoloni+arthur+slip-on?prodId=105611&category=dsw12cat1970004&activeCats=cat20192,dsw12cat1970004 http://www.dsw.com/shoe/rockport+men%27s+aachen+slip-on?prodId=252885&activeCats=cat20192,dsw12cat1970004 http://www.dsw.com/shoe/mike+konos+leather+penny+loafer?prodId=258469&activeCats=cat20192,dsw12cat1970004 I wish I can even keep $50+ in my pockets long enough to buy a set of shoes like that.
phineas Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 glossy doesn't work with my style or personality. these are more me. RJ Colt Ethyn Black - Zappos.com Free Shipping BOTH Ways Got it. When I go out to bars i'm usually in darkerJeans & a white shirt that has some kind of pattern on it & brown doesn't usually go with that.
ltjg45 Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 Personally, I prefer khaki colored clothing since it reminds me of the time I spent in NJROTC back in high school, the best memory of my life so far up to this point. So, for interviews, I typically wear a stripped khaki shirt, khaki pants, and, currently, my own pair of shoes: a worn-out pair of black, cheap sneakers. Outside of a dark blue suit that I hasn't worn in over a decade, this is my best outfit. *sigh*
FitChick Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 I seldom notice anyone's shoes. Maybe because I'm tall.
Estate Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 I am wondering, I hear some women use some kind of litmus test of their own to figure out or judge a man. Some have said they like to look at the kind of shoes they wear. Is this an overly fashion conscious woman or a gold digger red flag? Not at all! New, freshly polished dress shoes... win! 5 year old, falling apart air max... not so much.
ThaWholigan Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 I feel so out of my depth in this thread - I know f*ck all about shoes . Ah well, it's not often I feel out of my depth - it's new knowledge.
Ruby Slippers Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 Essentially, I don't give a **** about fashion. I've learned to dress well to make a good impression in business meetings and the like, and I dress up cute for going out day and night much more than I used to. I went to a business lunch at a nice restaurant today, and I was by far the best-dressed person in the room - because I know how this commands respect. I just did it as a means to an end - respect, trust, good business relationship, revenue. But different clothes don't make me feel any better or more confident, and I really don't much care what other people are wearing. Sure, a guy wearing flip flops on a date isn't going to be appealing. But too metrosexual is just as bad to me. I think many of the images of men that guys have posted here look flamingly gay. It even turns me off when men name specific shoe and clothing types that even I don't know. Just sounds very girly and unmasculine to me.
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