AKisBaked Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 I've been talking to a new girl that i met a few weeks back, we FB chatted alot then she gave me her number and now we text back and forth but now our talks have died down, and now we barely even talk for days... I message her but she doesn't respond.. I usually joke around with her and try to have fun conversations and she seems pretty enthusiastic and into our conversations but I guess its because she is a "club promoter" therefore she is always chatty and upbeat because its part of her job.. I feel that I don't stand out enough to her and I don't want to just be just another "friend" like all the others but it's hard to be different when she is constantly meeting new people and having alot of connections. May I be too nice that's why she stopped talking or is it because she found it boring with me?
Author AKisBaked Posted March 28, 2013 Author Posted March 28, 2013 You submitted an application to be a Gay Best Friend. Apparently there were not open positions available. Did it ever occur to you that she wanted to be asked out a couple of weeks ago? Next girl, when you get her phone number.... CALL HER ON THE PHONE AND ASK HER OUT ON A DATE! I actually did talk to her on the phone quite a few times and asked her out as well. But she always said she was busy. So what could I do if she's busy?
grkBoy Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 I actually did talk to her on the phone quite a few times and asked her out as well. But she always said she was busy. So what could I do if she's busy? Sorry dude. She was never into you. She maybe hoped to get a guy friend out if it, but realized you want more and thus now is backing off. If she stays in touch, then you can either be her friend only, or cut ties now and move on if you're hoping for a girlfriend. I don't know if you did anything wrong. You did ask her out when you got the number and all. I just think she wasn't into you to begin with, and I think nothing would have changed that.
InJest Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 Do not go looking for websites to learn tips for picking up women. Just start putting yourself in social settings with women that you have something in common with and go from there. Some type of hobby that you're good at or a class for a skill you want to learn.
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