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Good experience from checking up on ex?

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miklos Established Member

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So i just checked his facebook, and I noticed he shared a photo talking about why Fat Amy asks what happened in december? Ex put his Birthday but in december was also when he broke up with me?

 

I wish he would text me or call me and tell me he wants me back :(

Jingle14 Established Member

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Personally, I don't think any good can ever come of knowing but only you can know what will get you through this.

 

Question though - do you think the dumpers ever feel tempted to check up on us? I have my FB privacy settings 'open' just in case 'he' ever does as I want him to see positive comments and happy smiling photos. I'm fairly sure he won't but he can be very crafty and sneaky (and we are talking about a man who used to 'enjoy himself' in his office while looking at a photo of me for 2 years before we got together!) so I guess he might. But I have no idea what's going on in his life, he may well be so happy and busy with someone else to give me and my life a second's thought.

Missymac1980 New Member

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No absolutely not. My ex told me he was seeing someone else 2 weeks after the last time we were together it hurt....alot. I decided to snoop and discovered that he has a whole playlist of slushy songs dedicated to his new lady it was posted the same day he told me. The songs were all words like dont go to fast let's make it last I'm having the time of my life. I know can't get it out my head and I feel sick sick sick. There is nothing to be gained at all by snooping as you won't like what you find x

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AKisBaked Established Member

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No. ABSOLUTELY NOT! Social media totally F*CKS up your mind... Especially if your still talking to your ex or what not. If she or he is talking to you then you may believe what she/he says but then when you check her up online you might get a completely different story, and that is when you get pissed off and stressed.

 

Keeping tabs on your ex over the internet will definitely set you back longer and keep you in the past. If you have the access to it its natural that anyone would want to see their ex's and get information.

 

If you don't have enough will power to block the ex or not check up on her/his stuff then its best if you just close down your own account and not use any of it.

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