Letter to my ex

[AKisBaked]

I just recently wrote a letter to my ex to express my feelings towards her because I've been feeling alot of emotional stress lately about her. And I haven't really talked to anyone about this either so it's kind of been building up inside me and i can see myself getting more frustrated, physically out of it and mentally stressed about her.

 

I know some people on here may say it isn't a good idea to give her a letter or what not but I did it for myself to gain some closure for myself and between us. Since she never wanted to tell me exactly why we broke up and plus she's been playing me as a fool for awhile, such as always lying to me when I don't understand why she would need to lie to me if we have already been broken up... She gives me hope then she takes it away quickly from me, and when I find out its a lie, it just makes me more angry and frustrated. I don't understand why she can't just tell me the truth.

 

But anyways, I mailed the letter to her because I know that she won't make the effort to see me and plus if I do see her ill be a total wreck again after. So in a way its good that I don't see her. I don't believe she has gotten the letter yet since i only mailed it yesterday (tuesday) and where I live this coming friday is a long weekend therefore postal services aren't going to be processing it .

 

In the letter I mentioned some stuff about us being together and the memories we had, and also wrote what's been going on in my life alittle bit, not too much. And I ended the letter by saying, that these are my last words and she won't hear from me again.

 

I don't expect her to take me back or anything like that, I just needed to express my feelings toward her and that now I completed this letter to her its time for me to move on with my life.

 

But i would like to know who of anyone on her has written a letter to their ex and what kind of response did you get from them when they received it? I would kindly like to hear your feedback

Edited March 28, 2013 by AKisBaked

[Toddbt12y1]

You are walking down the same path I walked, how horrible.

 

She sounds much like my ex. I will be honest here, with you..

 

It won't do a bit of good. You are telling me, you sent it for closure? Don't tell me that! You did it for another reason...Hoping she will respond. That is why you added in memories. Otherwise, there would be no point to adding in your relation-memories.

 

A liar like her, won't care. She may not even respond: If she did, could you believe whatever she writes back? You hope she will, I am positive. She may feed you more lies, to build your hope up and then dash it into the Earth. That will make you hopeless...You do not want that.

 

She strung you along. You are giving her ammunition to do so again. You may want closure, but, a big part of you just wants a hopeful response. I never got closure, you are following the same scheme as me(though I never wrote her anything). It will end miserable.

 

Be a man. It is time to stop being hung-up on one lousey girl. You may hurt, but do not resort to these tactics.

[skweezd]

I just wrote a post regarding the same topic today. Last evening I sent an email to a man whom I was emotionally head over heels about. He's a corporate man so always very nice but very emotionally "even Steven". I had two months if no contact then the email. In my email, I was very sweet and I was bleeding my heart out to him, keeping it short though. At the end I wrote "no response necessary" as I just wanted him to know I missed him. Well he responded with his very typical kindness but no emotions. So enough of my dilemma, I do think you did the right thing. She may not respond depending on the tone of your letter. At least now since you mailed the letter, you can feel some closure. The fact that she can't give you an answer shows immaturity on her end. Try and stay busy. Time heals they say....