singme2sleep Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 If you could relive your whole relationship with your ex, knowing that it would end and how it would end...would you? Just something I've been thinking about lately, and I'm curious to hear other opinions.
Wabisabi Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 Actually yes, but I'd probably do a few things differently if I could. 1
all_cats_rgray Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 Actually yes, but I'd probably do a few things differently if I could. PFff thats breaking the rule...nothing changes. You know what love is. And if your not the one that walked away, you know you have deep love, and commitment. THIS IS SOMETHING PEOPLE WANT FROM OTHERS.
drpepper1886 Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 Definitely. Lots of great times,memories, and lots of lessons learned. I Know i'll look back in years and know that this was the thing that really shaped who I am. 1
Marine0311 Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 without a doubt, that girl made me so happy and was always there. gave me the best time of my life and truly helped me while deployed
Damsel in Distress Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 Absolutely. We had the times of our lives together. Maybe he was only able to give me two years before his love for me ran out, but for that two years we had an amazing connection and had the best times of our lives together. Up until the last few months he was as crazy about me as I was about him, and that is an absolutely wonderful feeling. And I feel weird saying this, but the sex was the best, and that is no small thing. We had a LDR so that gave us a lot of time to talk about sex, our turn-ons, and desires and fantasies, and I think that made a big difference. Very hot, adventurous...lots of chemistry. Absolutely no regrets.
all_cats_rgray Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 I like how edgar everyone is to say lets do it again.......because these are the one's waiting, and the ones that would take the dumper back.
Damsel in Distress Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 Well the dumpers aren't here to chime in, but I honestly think my dumper has no regrets and would do it again too. Our relationship was great while it lasted. I don't think there were problems in our relationship, but because it was long distance the intensity just faded and his attention was easily turned by somebody local. At least that's how I'm explaining it to myself tonight.
drpepper1886 Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 I like how edgar everyone is to say lets do it again.......because these are the one's waiting, and the ones that would take the dumper back. I think if a relationship wasn't abusive or ended with cheating it'd be hard to say you wouldn't want to relive it. I think my dumper would relive it.I know she adored me for most of our relationship; I heard it from everyone cause she would tell it to everyone.
StraylightRun24 Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 Yes for 2 reasons. First she was the first girl I actually fell in love with and even though it's hurting like hell right now I wouldn't trade the little time I had with her for anything in the world. Secondly she wasn't a big drinker and it rubbed off on me by helping me kick my excessive drinking habit (or would that be addiction?). I went from drinking 7 days a week (not proud to say a lot of times by myself ) to 2-3 times a weeks in the company of friends. So my liver (and hopefully my future wife and kids;)) thank her!
Author singme2sleep Posted March 28, 2013 Author Posted March 28, 2013 I def would, even knowing he'd break my heart.
Eddie Edirol Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 Absolutely not. Only because I think I was used as a rebound from the woman that still has me wondering about her. I wasnt in love, more like infatuated. And if I didnt learn a ridiculous amount of dating dynamics from it, I'd wish I could undo ever meeting her.
Wabisabi Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 PFff thats breaking the rule...nothing changes. You know what love is. And if your not the one that walked away, you know you have deep love, and commitment. THIS IS SOMETHING PEOPLE WANT FROM OTHERS. I know, that's why I said if I could. I like how edgar everyone is to say lets do it again.......because these are the one's waiting, and the ones that would take the dumper back. Nope. It's very clear to me that I won't take him back although he's the dumper.
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