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How can I win over this "afraid of dating" guy. Need Advice! please


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I really like this guy and were friends but sometimes he just ignores me.. Sometimes he wont leave me alone...sometimes he tells me how great i look... or jokes around with me askin if i wanna go to a movie or make out sumtimes lol but hes just fooling around.. I dont know if he likes me because sometimes when im with him he barely talks to me or responds to me.. I just dont know.. He has alot of money and is given everything like his car and hes got all this expensive stuff and loves to brag about it. Then other times hes all depressed how he doesnt have a girlfriend and is soo lonely all the time because he doesnt have a girlfriend. He has liked me before but hes really shy and i am too and we both were too scared to make the first move... so nothing really happened there. He sometimes says he doesnt want a gf because he doesn't want the attention or people saying anything about it.. Which i think that doesnt matter... but now i really like him again... i mean how shy is he?... hes not at all afraid to tell someone he likes them but really sared to ask them out? I learned that when he used to like me. He had a girlfriend for like a week last year... and he said he was forced to go out with her by his friends... Is he afraid of commitment or what? Whats going on with this guy. I just can't figure him out... anyone have any suggestions... how can i win him over ?

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yeah, i think hes shy, try talkin to him more often and be funny, if he doesnt talk to u, maybe u should make him feel more confortable... like 4 example, maybe he gets a little more shy in front of or friends or iono, that used to happen to me before, i think u should start a conversation with a stupid subject then u can go deeply and start jokin around and stuff, let him joke too, or else he'll feel down or shy of u..... if he asks u out and then says hes just jokin, HES NOT, but hes afraid of ur answer maybe...... i not sure if he is jkin or not.... but i got an idea... u can do it either ways... if he says something like that..... u can respond him in a playfull way too got it? and make up some parts of the story.... then u can end up like.... so... r we really going? ok.... wish u the best of luck!

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